ive been with this guy for almost 3 yrs... im a lil well off and he's not...im working on a degree and he's graduate as a car technician... he's almost perfect except for the fact that i think he cant raise our own family someday..i mean ill be working too...but thats all he got... he's "tryin" but nobody wants to accept him coz he doesnt have a good degree.. do u think breaking up with him for that sole reason is stupid?he never gave me problems and was close to my family but even my parents start to question what role would he be playing in our future coz of that career...what do u think? am i stupid when i break up with him coz of that?
2006-08-28 18:27:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are fuking stupid for wanting to break up with him simply becuase of the fact the he is economically disadvantaged. So you would rather be with a man who has money like you and perhaps cheats on you, or doesn't spend time with you?
Miss there are many people in this world who have money I challenge you to see if you get along with them just becuase of the sheer fact. Implicitly you are looking to buy another relationship. You said it yourself "he never game me problems and was close to my family..."
You need to stop listening to other people and start listening to yourself. At the end of the day you will be much happier. I listened to my friends and now I am missing my other half. The decision is your choice.
2006-08-28 18:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by syemour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really tough! I don't think you should break up with him for the sole reason that he does't make much money.If he has always treated you well and you have a good relationship, that is something valuable that a lot of couples don't have, so don't throw it away on a whim. But when you think of your future together, what issues come up for you? Will you have anything in common, or just gradually go along on your separate tracks until you don't know each other any more and you both wish you hadn't made a commitment? In my opinion, it's not really about your career choices, it's whether or not you can grow in the same direction together or not. Best of luck.
2006-08-29 01:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by Leslie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, well sweety I dont think you should break up with him, because hes not havin any luck w/ his employment. You need to stick by him and help him instead of tryin to break up with him. Especially since he didnt give u any problems and is close to ur family. Try to help him out and see if u can talk to him and convince him in maybe going back to school and doin somethin 4 himself, thats actually good. But at the end, no body really knows the situation but you two. So it depends on you and if u think that ur relationship is worth workin out this problem.
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2006-08-29 01:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by ms_ricanluv88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't break up with anyone over that. Car techs can actully make pretty good money if they go to the right place. But ti shouldn't be about the money at all anyways. You said other than that he is a great guy, or perfect as you say. If he is that great, you two will figure out themoney issue later. Maybe you can work and he can go back to school... tlak about it. I bet the two of you can come up with something... Good luck!
2006-08-29 01:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with him just because he doesn't have a degree...I mean, come on!!!!!!!! That is sooooooo shallow. If you love him then keep him or else you'll be miserable the rest of your life. I guess the real question here is what do you love?? Him or money??? Let me tell you, money comes and goes but true love is once in a lifetime. It sounds as though he's working and is not lazy. All I can tell you is decide what you love more. Good luck, sweetie.
2006-08-29 01:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we tell you to break up with a great guy who is a mechanic and to go for a doctor or lawyer how would you react to that. what do you think you have to own or have in life that this man cannot give you? you and your family have issues if the quality of the man is given less consideration than the money he has. I cannot believe you even had to ask anyone else's opinion. You should be disappointed in yourself and your family
2006-08-29 01:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Intelligent Donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not saying that you think he should be able to support your future family by himself. Why should you not be a part of that as well? If he is a good guy, and trying, then you would be an elitist snob for breaking up with him for that. If it was that big of a deal, you should never have gone out with him in the first place.
2006-08-29 01:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by emily_brown18 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are more educated than him, that could lead to problems in the future. No matter how much you love him, if he is not providing in the fashion you are accustom to, you will probably end up resenting him. You should ask yourself if what he is offering is enough. Sometimes being a good guy is just not enough.
2006-08-29 01:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by llizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not stay with a person solely for there job. If you love him you can work it out together. Women can be the major bread winner in a relationship.
2006-08-29 01:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really love this man.... encourage him to find a job, any job as long as he dun hv to ask u for $....if he dun earn enough to "support" the family u can always help him but he must b at least able to "support" himslf
2006-08-29 01:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋