Okay, I have this colleague in my work. He avoids me coz he thinks I like him and that I'm making a move on him but I'm just being friendly and that I'm just trying to make conversations with him coz I think he'll be a good friend. But the way he acts around me, avoiding me when he sees me, ignoring me when we're a having dinner together in a group while he talks to every girl, I can't help thinking that he thinks I have a huge crush on him and that I'm trying to get it on with him.
One time we were both with a female co-worker, he and I. He ignores me at all and doesn't talk to me which I think is rude. He just talks to her instead.
How can I show him I am NOT in love with him and I'm just trying to be friendly? I've tried ignoring him but I think it didn't work coz now he thinks the reason why I'm ignoring him is because I like him!
2006-08-28 18:26:19 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes people try and get others attention when there not get'n the attention from someone they want it from( da' attention).
And if Im wrong about this you can correct me.. You find yourself trying this hard cause his not paying any attention your way( and that's fine to feel like that..it's normal)...but believe me..Ignorance is the best way to win this one...cause now that his ignoring you..your trying hard for it ...So try to turn the table around and do the same ...but always offcourse your moves has to have a slight reassurance that you 2 are still friends/good co-workers. Good-Luck!!!
2006-08-28 18:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by nAiSa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it necessary to go out of your way to show how friendly you are? For one thing, if your intentions really are genuinely platonic, then don't waste too much time on someone who was that narcissistic or immature. Even if you were interested, there's no need for a guy to act like he's in grade school.
If your intentions really aren't just platonic, then play it cool. I tend to think that there's a greater chance of a person losing interest if he/she thinks it'll be easy to have you.
2006-08-28 18:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by achtungbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS ARE IDIOTS. Some guys out there believe that they are cool and cocky just so they can get girls attention. They think that if they play the A@#hole card girls will think they are bad boys. Girls love the bad boy. Anyway, you need to tell him, not in a rude way or in front of people to embarrass him. Let him know. Guys are like little puppies you have to tell them to stop and go away before they will stop and go away.
2006-08-28 18:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is rude and or gay,why is this so important to you if there is nothing more?Ask a trusted co-worker to ask him whats up and if he say's he has no clue,you are obssesed and that means get back to work.
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2016-11-06 00:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont spend so much energy on someone your not interested in. I would not have even taken the time to type that question if i wasn't interested in a guy. Focus on why you would think that.
2006-08-28 18:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by abdarm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best would be to talk to him frankly & try to understand each other. May be there is some reason of his behaviour. No other thing will work , except talk straight
2006-08-28 18:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by arnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-28 18:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by official bowl loader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make assumptions about the guys. They are not so complicated. So why not you tell him directly and make everything be settled!
2006-08-28 18:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by herethere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to lunch and set the record straight. if that doesn't work, hit below the belt. LOL.
2006-08-28 18:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋