what to do???

Question

ok i really really like this guy and i don't think he likes me what should i do. im only 13 and all my friends have bf 's. i don't know what to do

Answer 1

Your 13. Trust me when I tell you, take the time to enjoy being 13 and wait a couple of years before you let boys ruin your life.

Answer 2

I say just be yourself and talk to him and wait for the signs. If he sits with you or hangs with you. The other is don't worry about your other friends. You need to be your own person. Your 13 and have you whole life ahead of you and more guys will come your way. Have fun and don't fell you need to grow up so fast.

Answer 3

The best thing you CAN DO...depends on what result you're looking for...Do you WANT AN IMMEDIATE BF? then you need to approach it like an adult/13 year old and be witty, cute, rhetorical, etc....do you just want this guy to LIKE YOU, or commence CHASING you (that means start chasing you?) then you gotta' be "scarce"...don't go near him, call him, email/im, no contact...stay AWAY steer clear, and if you've had any interraction with him at all in the past that he showed an interest, he'll bring his interest, curiosity, LIKE(he won't bring love), attraction, and everything with him to CHASE/FIND you...More is always less...the more you contact someone you WANT to WANT you the LESS THEY WANT you...consider it like hunting...you go hunting and are DYING to kill a deer...you live it, breathe it, smell it...you kill a deer on your first day hunting, and then...POOF! ya' kinda' want your deer to get back up and trounce away, because you were really after the "thrill of the hunt- hence, the thrill of the chase, thrill of the kill...." You kill a deer on your first day of a 3 day hunting trip and it RUINS YOUR TRIP! so with guys (this is coming from a guy WHO KNOWS- don't play games, don't play hard to get...just BE HARD TO FIND, BE HARD TO NAIL DOWN, BE HARD TO CORNER,...no games there! If you're worth anything...if you're ABOVE a HO status, ya' gotta make em "work" to get at ya'...and if you're "easy" to find, talk to, give yourself up and be available, convenient, open, forthcoming UP FRONT- then you are, my dear...A DEER KILLED IN A HUNT ON THE FIRST DAY! which is no fun, easy, and easily forgotten!

Answer 4

ask himhow he feel about u ... there is nothing to afriad to ask.. it is like ordering Mac ... it is either a yes or no.. if no.. u can proceed to be good frens and find other guys... if he agree.. ur got yourself a boyfren.. dun be afriad... though we might be ladies... there is nothing to be afriad of... it is all in you.. whehter u want to do it anot.. I know it is diffcult but u have to be brave.. there will be much more to come when u grow older....

Answer 5

Give him something tangeable, like a card. He will hold onto it and think and think and think about nothing else but you. Dont have to say too much, just say hi, thinking of you. Its a gentle way to start and you are not putting yourself out there too badly, try it.

Answer 6

Just let someone tell him for you then if he is interested you might hear it from some of his friends and if he isn't you can deny what your friend has told him, and if she is a good friend she will back you up! saves any embarrassment my dear, try it!

Answer 7

Well do something that would impress him something like smelling good when passing by him take note use different kinds of perfume especially victoria secret

Answer 8

I think you need to really really talk to him about it.

Answer 9

well... talk to him casually, try to get to know him, if it seems he doesnt like you, dont give him the satisfaction of letting him know you like him, he doesnt deserve the ego boost.

Answer 10

Don't worry about..if its meant to be you guys will get together.