Im 15 years old, male. Anyway there is this girl i really like but whenever i talk to her she pretends not to like me. How can i tell if she likes me or not. Plz only serious answers.
2006-08-28 18:15:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just because she doesn't talk to you doesn't mean she doesn't like you. she could be shy, or like someone else said, playing hard to get. there could also be the possibility that she really does like you, only she ignores you because she might think that you don't like her back, so she doesn't want to be embarrassed- so she ignores you. i once saw a poem or heard song lyrics that go, "couldn't you tell that i liked you by the way i ignored you?"
MAN IT'S SO TRUE!
don't listen to all those other brutes.
unlessss she's just flat out mean to you and looks at you weird.
2006-08-29 10:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by WiseWisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "pretends" .... shy, avoids eye contact or avoids you all together? Honestly sometimes that is flirting.
But will not carry a conversation with you, tells her friends to tell you she is not interested, makes rude comments, treats you badly...
more likely than not she is not interested and if she is, perhaps she is not worth all the effort if she already cant be decent towards you.
2006-08-28 18:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by MRSCUCCH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense... but when girls pretend not to like someone, they usually don't really like that person.
I'm a girl, and when I hate a guy, I act like I don't like them because I don't like them.
The pulling-on-pigtails thing only works when we're younger.
But maybe she is pretending... then she might just be shy. Easiest way to find out is to ask her.
Hope this helps a bit?
2006-08-28 18:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Zyxxin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes not pretending if you really like her tell her and ask her how she feels about you if she doesnt like you move on after all your just 15 and there are alot of girls to go thru before you find miss right
2006-08-28 18:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by Karenthezookpr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get to know her better, talk to her and stuff. Dont straight go and ask her, it might make her feel weird and ackward around you. If she doesnt talk to you just stop trying then...
and u can tell if she likes u if she gets nervous around you, stares at you in class , tries to look pretty as she talks to you or something.
2006-08-28 18:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand tall man, whats not to like ? I know girls like a man who is not afraid. Can you imagine how fast the girls heart will race when you ask her? That sort of stuff get them interested, not the wishy washy does she like me crap. Have a go !
2006-08-28 18:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by THE BIG O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and know her real feelings, if things are negative try to forget her and find another friend, do not be upset and remember these things happen to all people.
2006-08-28 18:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way I know, you can try to pretend that you feel bad or something like that, and see her reaction... or tell her that you're sad, something wrong....(think about it!)
And it depents what's after it.
2006-08-28 18:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Phat! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to you know she's pretending, she could be playing hard to get, but she could also just not like you. . .go straight up, ask her
2006-08-28 18:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop pursuing her. if she likes you, she will probably then direct some attention your way.
if she is not interested in you, chasing her will probably win you the label of "creep".
girls, like guys, are complex; be patient with her and with yourself!
2006-08-28 18:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by myid98902 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋