My bff loves my bf she told him in front of me. I did take in bad but i didn't like it. But i still want to be bf and bffs
2006-08-28 18:12:51 · 16 answers · asked by Carry beary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my Bff loves my bf. i don't want ot leave my friend we have been friends for a long time but my bf and her were friends longer. wut should i do
2006-08-28 18:24:38 · update #1
my Bff loves my bf. i don't want ot leave my friend we have been friends for a long time but my bf and her were friends longer. wut should i do
2006-08-28 18:24:40 · update #2
First of all . . . you are all too young for a relationship . . . but that is beside the point now.
Your Best Friends (Forever) told your Boyfriend that she loves him in front of you. This is a typical play for girls, trying to take possession of something that belong to someone else. Guys don't have a habit of stealing their best friend's girlfriends . . . but for some reason Girls do.
This is the possible senario outcome . . .
1) your boyfriend may cheat on you . . . you get mad and dump him
2) your best friend will get upset with you and try to piss you off. . . make you angry at her . . . then in front him, try to make you blow your top . . . to convince your boyfriend you are a psycho.
3) Dump your best friend . . . talk with your boyfriend . . . regarding the situation, regarding what she may do or have possibly said earlier.
There are many more possibility . . . but the possibility of you remaining friends with your best friend is slim . . . and the possibility of you losing you bf is greater, because, in general . . . guys are friends with girls they want to bang. . . so if he is friends with her before you two were in a relationship, he wanted her, but she was in a relationship. Now she is available . . . and professed her desire for him . . . he may sneak around the corner, behind your back and nail her.
I am not trying to be harsh, just honest and upfront. If you want the truth . . . ask your boyfriend. Ask him if he finds her hot? If he says definite Yes or No answer (especially a definite "No") . . . . he does and he wants her. If he says kinda, she's okay . . . you might be safe . . . otherwise, next opportunity he has . . . he will nail her.
2006-09-05 10:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, but it isn't very good if a friend does this to another. Doesn't sound like she values your friendship, more than her want to be with your man. If you don't take your relationship with your bf or your bffs infatuation with your bf to seriously, then let it go......but if it bothers you then have a talk with them or ditch one or the other. Before they decide to hook up and you are left hurt and alone.
2006-08-28 18:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well i doubt she "loves" him and yeah anyways if he is a good bf, he will stay with you. Also, your bff would be a good friend by just like not trying to screw up your relationship and stuff.
-Edward
2006-08-28 18:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by cursedconcept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sux, i know the feeling, i kept my relationship gong with both my bf and bff, and it worked out for me, once i felt secure with my bf. i hope it works out for you, maybe your bff needs some help in finding the right guy for her to hang out with as a 4some, i'm sure she wouldn't want to do anyhting that woud jepordise your friendship if you are calling her your bff. good luck!
2006-08-28 18:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ask how your bf feel abou this best fren of yours?? If you bf does not like her.. then there is nothing to worry about.. cos u can still be best fren with your fren and gf with the guy...
Ok.. in the event your bf likes ur best fren.. it means ur bf dun love u at all and u can ditch him off.... it is really how u look at the situation.. u shld be happ that your bf is such a good catch that your best fren is liking him... if he can promise that he love only u .. that u shld not worry abt him fallin for ur gal fren... rite??
no worries... take each step at the memonet.. of cos if ur best fren is trying to get him.. he is not ur best fren at all cos best fren dun do such things....
2006-08-28 18:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not one among those reliable theory, I surely have a bestfriend who flirts with lots of the adult men i admire because of the fact im guessing she's fat & gruesome, anywho i wouldnt call her my so noted as bestfriend after she did that, she nevertheless does it yet she's hassle-free it is why and that they circulate away her which i detect fairly humorous, yet annyway in simple terms hear please ; how might you experience in the journey that your bestfriend pronounced i admire you on your boyfriend? would not that harm you, would not you experience ashame, used, harm, disillusioned. i been by that, it is not gonna make something greater useful, it will make you be apologetic approximately it, be careful, i do no longer think of it is a robust theory. there are countless adult men that are tall and candy, i propose idk have been they are at, ahah! yet perhaps at some point that one guy will come out and say hi <3 hehe ? goodluck.
2016-10-01 00:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by raffone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bff..does that still mean best friend forever? If so, you are too young to be messing around with having a boyfriend.
2006-08-28 18:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like she is a shitty BFF if she is hitting on your BF in front of you. Hell even if your not there that would be worse.
2006-08-28 18:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't seem like much of a friend if she did that. At least it was in front of you instead of hiding it from you. She could be worse.
2006-09-05 06:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be together so they can be that mean to each other, instead of you. You should find new people to be around who will be nicer to you.
2006-09-05 13:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋