I really love my girlfriend, and she knows I do, but lately, I think she thinks i'm getting bored with her. I'M NOT!!! Lately i've been worrying that she's losing interest in me, so I need to prove to her that I am SERIOUS!!
2006-08-28 18:03:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well showing her you love her is not going to make her not lose interest in you. those are two different questions. but if you want to show her you love her, do little things for her like buy her flowers (but not a bouquet or something--just a couple pretty flowers maybe from a flower shop or some that you picked yourself), bring her lunch at work, etc. its the little things that count...
2006-08-28 18:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question....
Dude, first thing is this: Be Cool.
Trust yourself... and stop worrying.
Worry is the 1st sign of a lack of communication.
OK?
Yahoo Answer Members: Come on now...
we've all been through this same situation....
and help out Ninja1701dee. !!!!
Let's use are experience for the Greater Good!
Let's come to his rescue, and prove that Love Is Forever!!
Ninga1701dee: Question:
"When was the last time y'all did something spontaneous?"
I live in California, so forgive me for the following examples:
"Tell" your girlfriend that we are going on a hot air ballon ride over Napa Valley next weekend.. followed by a mud bath in Calistoga!
Don't ask... just do It!!!
"Helicopter Ride over San Francisco Bay... tomorrow!"
"I'm Kidnapping you... you'll see where when "We" get there!"
Do this on a Saturday morning when you both have the weekend off... and have a blast!!
It's OK if you both are late for work on Monday...!!!!
Always be a gentelman... open doors, hold her hand, treat her
with kindness... and respect.
I'm sure she dresses very nice, not only for you, but also for herself. She takes pride in her apperance.
Recognize this, and be very sincere when you notice the new shoes, and her perfume.
When you are In Love, these things will come naturally for you.
But most Importantly...
Realize, understand her heart.... her feelings.
Talk with her, share your feelings and concerns.
Never underestimate her feelings.
Find the special place..
hold her precious face in your hands...
and tell her....
tell her that you love her.
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-28 18:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of the right answer for this depends on how old you are, but...
be there for her. do things with her, even when she knows that you would really rather be somewhere else, like hanging with your buddies or watching the game.
tell her how you feel. if she is 'The One' in your life, then you should be able to do this.
notice when she does something different with her hair, or has a new outfit, and tell her how nice she looks.
spend time with her doing little things that don't involve parties, bars, pool halls, or any other 'Meat Market" type venue. picnic in a park. take her to a museum, show her the art you like, find out what she likes, and why.
ask her about her dreams for the future, tell her about yours, discuss how you can both make them come true.
hold her when she is upset, even if it is about something you think is dumb.
tell her how beautiful she is, how much you love her, and how lucky you feel to have her in your life every day.
little things... it is always the small things that are important. get them right, and she will KNOW you love her.
2006-08-28 18:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by odyssey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prepare a very very romantic dinner , not at your place , make it an outdoor dinner in a place only you and her can be together alone , have dinner , make love to her like it's your first with her , buy her nickles , slow dance with her , and most important tell her that you love her and that you wouldn't want to be anywhere in the world except in that place with her
after that , she'll be like fireworks and will cancel the idea of losing any interests in you
i did that and it really worked , good luck
2006-08-28 18:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the the little things she likes. Guys always wanna make these grand gestures as symbols of their love .when in actuality women prefer the intimately personal touch things that only you know will turn her on and touch her heart.if you've paid any attention you'll know what they are if not you've got a woman to acquaint yourself with
2006-08-28 18:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by tcbme56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her,and tell her how u feel,ask her if she feels the same..But really the best way to show her is to SHOW her,,touch her,look in her eyes tell her u love her,hold her hand for no reason. Brush the hair away from her face,,tell her shes beautiful,kiss her on the forehead.
2006-08-28 18:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by hopes_angel69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get down on one knee and propose then she will know ur serious. or if ur too young then take her on a date where she always wanted to go. one of the ultimate romantic dates is a ride on an airballoon overlooking ur city or town or wherever u live and with a good bottle of wine. thats always good. another romantic thing i think would be first take a ride with her on a horse drawn carriage to an expensive restaurant and get a hotel room that is decorated with rose pedals on the floor and a bottle of some fine shampagne in the bathtub with rose pedals in the tub and also with candles. and then u get lucky.
2006-08-28 18:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by hotmodelanti 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her some flowers. maybe some nice jewelry if you have the money. or just say your taking her out on a date and go out to dinner and see a movie that you both would enjoy together =) if you are older and out on your own. then set up a "romantic day" at your house, maybe a nice bubbly bath togtehr, give her a massage and cook some grub! =p
thats what i would like form my boyfriend anyways =)
2006-08-28 18:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best game is to surprise her. Do something she'd never expect you to do. (Not something that she'd end up having to bail you from jail). Make one of her fantasies come true. Do something for her that'll stay in her mind for as long as she breathes.
Women are competitive beings if you haven't noticed. So doing something for her that makes her girlfriends jealous would be a definite plus.
Put some PB&J on that. :)
2006-08-28 18:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's the little things that speak louder than the words, I love you. Ask her about her day- look in her eyes when she speaks to you, give her attention. touch her hand, Kiss her for No reason- leave her a love note occasionally- we are really not very complicated-
2006-08-28 18:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by onesmaartlady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋