why cant I find my soul mate ?

Question

i am 24 years old and I do not have a girl friend I had one but we broke up 2 years age since then i am still single. what should I do ?

Answer 1

you'll find her when you stop looking for her.

Answer 2

Stop looking and have a good time with your friends. When the time is right youll find her or she will find you. Sounds like your a little bit immature for your age so maybe you just need a little more life experience to get you noticed by the opposite sex, at any rate obsessing wont find you true love thats for sure. Relax and enjoy your freedom while you have it.

Answer 3

One of the biggest challenges many men have, especially in your age bracket, is that they don't have the social SKILLS necessary to pick up on women. If you're looking for a soulmate my question to you would be:

"Why do you want to find one?"

With most men that I've dealt with many of them WANT a girlfriend or a "soulmate" for the wrong reasons. If you're single and you want to find your soulmate here's what you need to realize.

1. You need to start working on your skillset on meeting and approaching women.

2. You may have to date 10, 25, even 50 or more women over a certain number of years before you actually find that ONE woman that really qualifies to be with you. Unfortunately, too often I see men settle (as well as women).

3. Make it a point to stay single and start dating casually for a while. I remember what I thought what I wanted in a woman was right for me at age 24. Now in my 30s, what I want in a woman is totally different now because I've worked on my skill set and have dated enough women to where I KNOW what I really want.

4. Make sure you want a "girlfriend" for the right reasons. If it's to make yourself feel more complete or you won't feel like such a loser, then those are the WRONG reasons. You should discover what your own path is in life and the find a woman that will join you on that path. It took me years to really understand that.

Most men try and find a woman that is pretty and then end up missing their path in life. Having a relationship can be one of the best things ever as long as it is ON YOUR TERMS.

I would also ask you, what kinds of hobbies do you have? How often to go out of the house? Do you have a social life set up where you can naturally meet women? For example, I take dance lessons and have met many women there. I also host get-togethers and happy hours at my house. I have a busy social life and have a never-ending resource for meeting new women. Make sure you structure your life and hobbies so you meet new people. I belong to different clubs and attend social events. I also meet women online. The key is to not come off as needy or insecure.

If you're nice to a woman for no reason, she's going to be suspicous. What you need to do is LEARN how to work on your different skill sets so you can meet more women. It took me a good solid year to do this. But once I did I could meet women in coffee shops, markets, bowling alleys, online, on the street, at bars, night clubs, food fairs, amusement parks, plays, restaurants, and I recently picked up on a woman at a gas station!

Some of the most successful men in the world with women are not that good looking or rich. I should know, I'm one of them.

Rod Cortez

Answer 4

well, your dwelling on the past. You want to expierence good feelings again, but I tell you, finding another girlfriend will satisfy that need. Go travel, leave the country with some good friends. Have fun, and make sure where you are looking...is a good place, not like a bar. Good luck finding your sould mate, you have the rest of your life to find her so make good use of your time.

Answer 5

Well, in the law of energy - like energy attracts like energy. Don't focus on what you are lacking - instead focus on what you want. Start meditating on the qualities you want in a soul mate, picture what your life will be like, actually feel what it would feel like and hold that vision - then let that energy go out to the world. You will soon attract the woman who is meant to be in your life. In the mean time work on making yourself ready and taking care of and nurturing yourself.

Answer 6

If you really really want a soul mate you need to make room for her in your life. Literally. So empty half your wardrobe space.
Next write a list of all the traits you want her to have.
A statement, if you will, to the Universe.
Burn the intention in your consciousness and watch her appear in your life.

Answer 7

Just relax and continue to be yourself. If you treat women well and are a likeable person, whom you are searching for will come to you. Do you place yourself in surroundings where there are other people? You may need to broaden you horizons and most importantly, every gift may not arrive in the package we expect. Be open. Blessings.

Answer 8

Maybe all your bitching about it is keeping the 'soul mates' away on person b/c you're obviously not ready. Learn to be happy alone and then a girl will be happy with you and lalalala.

Answer 9

you're 24 you've barely begum to live most people go a life time and never find their soulmate.if you read stories of broken relationships they almost all thought they had their soulmate. soulmate searching takes patience and the possible acceptance that your soulmate my end up just being your bestfriend

Answer 10

sometimes it takes along time to find your soul mate it took my husband& i a very long time to find each other, when we first met it felt like we knew eachother forever & that is how you will know that you have found your soul mate.

Answer 11

Start dating just for the fun of it. Don't look for "the one" in every girl you meet. Sometimes when you stop making it so big and just enjoy yourself, opportunity presents itself. Good luck!