Ok this is the story, I have a best mate who is a guy and i'm a girl. His known me since I was 14 and now I’m 20. He met me trough my brothers ex girlfriend but now I’m friends with him and not my bros ex. In the last 6 months I have found that my feelings have got strong for him, more than just buds. And I think he has some sort of feelings for me. But the thing is we have so much history. Everyone I know he knows and visa versa. I’m scared if we do go out that friendships will be wrecked and it would be weird for us to be intermit because we look at each other as brother and sister. But yet we feel for each other. Plus I went out with his best mate and he was sexual with my brothers ex. But he is the type that you can marry and have kids with. It’s very hard to find a good guy that doesn’t end up hurting you.
What do I do?
2006-08-28 17:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by holdengirl005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this: Which would you rather do: Take a chance, give it a shot and possibly have one of the best relationships you'll ever have? OR Not try anything and spent the rest of your life wondering "what if?"
Sure it's taking a risk, but if you don't try, you may end up regretting it later.
2006-08-28 18:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Duende71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short; go for it! You love him! Perhaps you can send signals. Look in his eyes and smile. You might be able to show him that you like him without a direct confrontation.
2006-08-28 18:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher Boston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it at least you all have the same friends. On that intimacy thing.....relax....lol, they say incest is best, jk, lmao though. It just sounds like you guys already have what most couples never get, your already great friends........Think of it as Patrick and Sally and Couplings......lol. good luck!
2006-08-28 18:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU NEED TO TELL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM
AND SEE WHERE IT MAY TAKE YOU. THIS COULD BE
YOUR SOUL MATE. IF ANOTHER ELSE YOU WILL ALWAY
BE BEST FRIENDS. THAT MAY NEVER CHANGE. BUT
SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT THE BEST LOVE OF YOUR
LIFE IS THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE FRIENDS WITH
BEFORE ANY THING ELSE. SO GO FOR IT. GOOD
LUCK.
2006-08-28 18:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. if you don't later in life you are going to be wondering if he is the right one. but if you do go into it slow. that way you can still be friends if it don't work out.
2006-08-28 18:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jedi_Yak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it who cares what people think.It sounds like you two would make a great couple.
2006-08-28 18:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him this and see how he feels. then you can talk together and see if this would work out
2006-08-28 18:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by delzzers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is about chance either you take it r you don't.if you don't then you'll never know.
2006-08-28 18:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
2006-08-28 18:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋