Im not clucky?

Question

Im 26, and Ive never felt clucky, my boyfriend is keen to have children soon, but I dont have any urge, I guess I want kids eventually, but Is it normal by this age, to not get excited over children or want any?
I never look at a baby and go "oh how cute". all I see is a little person with a running nose and smells and makes a lot of noise,
Do you think I will eventually get clucky and want kids?

Answer 1

Until I was 30 and met my husband I didn't think I would want to have kids, but once we met I couldn't wait to get pregnant.

Answer 2

I have never heard the term "clucky" before!

With that said, lots of women never get that feeling. my sister got pregnant by accident, hated the pregnancy, hated everything about. She loves her son very much but just never was very good with kids. I don't think she'll ever get used to it. Me on the other hand, I am just happier when there are children around! I've had three, expecting another and I love every minute of it....even labour!! :)
Your boyfriend needs to know that you just aren't sure right now. I'm sure when you are ready, if ever, he will be the first to know! Just don't stress to much about not feeling "clucky"!
Good luck :)

Answer 3

I think,you will be eventually get clucky and want kids when you know how great it's to be a mother>>>>>

Answer 4

Sista, women are having children at the age of 60. i am in my 20s and i am scared to have kids but i don't have them now because I'm still in college. when i finish i will attend graduate school and when i graduate I'm thinking about having a kid or two. its scary because you have to worry about day care and losing your FReedom. bu t i have a feeling when i have kids it will be a joyful and stressful experience. maybe you want to hold on to you freedom or you have goals to accomplish. but freedom is the most important thing. you are not alone and take your time. you will get lucky. just stay healthy and please dont have a child at 60, have them under 60 please. lol don't rush and Good luck. oh and stand up ans tell your man that you are not ready. men kill me saying they want this and that but they will be there 24/7 to feed and change shitty diapers all day. OK do you feel me. lol

Answer 5

If you don't want one right now then don't have one. The world has enough unwanted children. My sister is the same way. She is 25 and has absolutely no desire what so ever to have any kids. You just might be someone who never wants kids or you might want them later in life. That is perfectly normal. Do not have kids just because your boyfriend wants to. Do it when you are ready and because you want to. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 6

Perhaps. You're still young enough where you certainly might change your mind, though I would THINK that you would have a more open attitude toward them by now. I certainly don't want any children right now, or for many more years, but I have always looked at them and thought "Awwwwww."
Just make sure your boyfriend understands how you feel, because that is the kind of thing that can ruin a relationship.

Answer 7

You know? I believe that if you don't feel like being a mom, you should not have kids (not even to please your partner). It would make you unhappy and the child may suffer too.
Some people make great parent, some simply do not.
And it's not a crime or a sin if you don't want to be a mother.
Good luck!

Answer 8

i know a lot of woman that didn't feel the baby urge until their 30's. so tell your boyfriend to slow down, marry you (if that's what you want) and have fun with you alone because once their a baby is takes at least 18yrs. to be a single couple again.

Answer 9

ya eventually, when your ready... no need to rush life,,, life just happens in its own good time!

Answer 10

You may but I don't think so.