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wear the full muslim head gear and dress, go through all the rigorous islamic customs and be married to muslim men who will dominate you?

2006-08-28 17:54:04 · 14 answers · asked by 0 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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First of all, Peace to u, and thanx for asking a question abt my religion Islam.
This answer is NOT for to be voted or chosen Best Answer, it is for those who Seeks The Truth, regarding this matter.
I'll answer ur comments in a Reverse Order, and it is quite a long, but it is my dire request to read it to the end, 'coz it answers all ur misconceptions abt Islam regarding this matter. Thank You. Now to Start,
Tell me honestly, don't u ladies like when a man takes charge? when a man is in control? when a man does NOT act like a door-mat? its a fact that all women are more attracted to men who are more 'macho' than 'wussbags', so why deny it? its in ur nature, u r hard-wired by ALLAH (GOD) like this, whether u like it or not, and ALLAH (GOD) Knows Best abt u, more than u know abt urself. So, whats wrong when a man dominates u? after all, husband is responsible to look after his wife and fulfills her every needs whether it be financially, or protect her physically.
As for the Islamic Customs are concerned they are Never Rigorous, and u can ask any Muslim Woman abt it, and she will tell u instead, that these customs are beautiful to them as well.
As for Muslim Head gear and dress is concerned, if u ask any True Muslimah (Muslim woman), she will tell u, how beautiful it is to be protected like that, i will point out some advantages of it out of the top of my head :-

1) When a Muslimah goes out on to the streets, ALLAH (GOD) will protect her from :
a) Dirty gazes of men.
b) Various taunts from men (just for the sake of example i m
quoting "Nice Hooters !!!")
c) Molestation from Men.
d) Even from being an easy target of rapists.
e) Last, but Not the Least, she will be well-respected and
honoured by men, as ALLAH (GOD) will put the respect &
honour for her, into the hearts of men.
2) The Beauty of a Woman won't be on 'show' for the entire
public (she is NOT a Public Property), but her beauty will only
be for whom she wants (her husband, her children and other
family members).
3) If she is a working women :
a) she wont ever be sexually harassed.
b) she will have high self-esteem, 'coz she won't be appraised
for her beauty and body, but rather for her work, intelligence
& any other talent.
c) she will be handed more responsible assignments and
positions in office, 'coz employers know what she is
capable of, rather than having her for a Personal Secretary
('coz she is beautiful and sexy, of course).
4) Moral & Ethics of Society will Raise quite a bit, as children and
teens will be brought up with Respect for Women.
5) Extra-marital sex will diminish, and wives will feel much
secure, 'coz she knows that her husband won't cheat on her,
as he won't be oggling on any young beautiful girl (well, in an
ideal world, if all are dressed the Islamic Way).
6) Pre-marital sex will diminish, which will give parents a peace
of mind, that their teens are safe, and they won't develop any
mental & emotional unstability (which comes from sex at an
early age).
7) Various STDs, HIVs, and any other terminal diseases won't
spread, through common sexuality in society.
8) Finally, u will be living in a Decent Modest Society, Not a
Jungle.

Now, i know that the Last Point is hard to swallow, but i'll like to give my proof of it, unlike some other ppl who comments without sufficient proofs abt Islam.
Readers' Digest magazine conducted a survey in US in 1991, as to how many Rapes Registered (forget abt the unregistered) occurs in a single day? and the figure came out to be 1756 rapes in every 24 hrs (rape in every 50 secs).
Then, 5yrs later in 1996 FBI disclosed stats of US, among which how many Rapes Registered occurs in a single day? and the figures were 2713 Rapes in every 24 hrs (rape in every 33 secs), which means ppl got more bold in terms of raping.
But, i haven't had the oppurtunity to view the latest stats (i will appreciate if someone looks up & tells me), i don't know how much bolder ppl would have had gotten in 10 yrs (if they got so much bold in 5 yrs) for raping.
So, this is the reason, i concluded it is a Jungle Out there, and US is amongst the top countries where rape occurs mostly, but Not the Top country.
Now, u ppl are going to counter with the argument that, "oh u don't know rapes occuring in Muslim Countries, 'coz women aren't even allowed to register such cases", right?!! i have a valid counter-agreement for that as well, but since this answer has gotten so long, i don't want to increase it further. For an answer to this, u'll have to ask me this question, or contact me at askabtIslam@yahoo.com or my yahoo id through this nick.
Finally, i would like to invite u to Islam, the Religion of Peace, Love, Harmony & Humanity. Also it gives more right to women than anyone else, and elevates the status of women NOT oppress them (oppression of women is One largely spread misconception abt Islam). But, dont take my word for it. Do research on ur own abt Islam. Read The Holy Quran, Read Books of Hadiths (Prophet's Sayings), Research by Authentic Reliable Books & Sites (Don't count on sites that defame Islam, 'coz they spread mis-information and misconceptions abt Islam, and they cant even back up there claims with sufficient proofs, thus they are basically rambling Falsehood abt Islam). Do all this research on ur own and dont believe in anyone's hearsay (Not even mine). May GOD (ALLAH) guide u on The Path of Truth. Peace to All.

2006-08-29 17:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Valentino 3 · 0 0

if an already married woman took shahadah she might already no from her study that she would not be accepted to stay w/present day better half. the clarification a muslim woman won't be able to marry a non muslim guy is b/c the lady is on the religion of her husband and as a result might better than probable turn far off from islaam. additionally a kin w/differing non secular ideals won't be able to and could no longer flourish. even christians have a saying( i comprehend b/c i used to be one) a kin that prays mutually,remains mutually and it is totally genuine. the guy will possibly no longer have an issue w/ her decision yet there will be conflict on how their infants would be raised,so it is maximum suitable to be w/somebody who would not have conflicting non secular perspectives. this grow to be the main reason my husband divorced his christian spouse and he or she's shrink off all ties w/his daughter.

2016-10-01 00:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by raffone 4 · 0 0

ok im muslim, but im not like a muslim you described like wearing head gear and dress.
and about your question if i would then the answer is maybe...

2006-08-28 18:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not all Muslim women dress completely cover themselves or even wear veils. None of the Muslim women that I know personally wear veils.

2006-08-28 17:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Pears 5 · 1 1

Well, Muslims will not convert to Christianity either.

2006-08-28 18:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by NchantingPrincess 5 · 1 1

NOOOOOO!!!!
I believe in the freedom of choice, I believe in the freedom to live, as we are all created equal, therfore all equally have the right to see, speak, think and hear.
Men who dominate come from insecurity...I want a strong man! (I mean, a man who can challenge, not push or dominate).

2006-08-28 18:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

No. Not really. But would you like to convert to common sense?

2006-08-28 18:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

women these days dont want a dominate male, they want money

2006-08-28 18:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by papaofgirlmegan 5 · 0 0

sure ,they destroy the reputation of islam.

2006-08-28 18:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by 12imams R infallible. kamalsam 5 · 0 0

bloody selfish pple! hell no!

2006-08-28 17:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by Cat Commander 3 · 0 1

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