Serious only: some suggestions for intimate adventures...?

Question

I am helping a friend (really, i am) who is in a developing relationship, and her and her fella have recently taken the "intimate" plunge. They are now enjoying each other's company on a naked level. (I'm trying to keep this clean) They are both much less experienced than my husband and I are (we're married 11 years, and very adventuresome) She has asked me for suggestions for "new" things to try. While I don't want to get her into something super weird, I would love some CREATIVE ideas for her to try. I already suggested they do typical stuff, like baby oil activities or a change in scenery (other rooms with other props) or the shower....anyone have anything else for her?

Answer 1

PORN. Watch it, learn it, Live it!

Answer 2

Halloween is one of the most popular holidays because people get to dress up and take on a "character". This is also true of Mystery parties, P&H parties, and any kind of social event where people can dress up and take on a character. In fact, studies have shown that people are more inclined to behave "out of character" when they have permission to take on another character.

So my first suggestion would be for them to try some role-playing. I'm going to also try and keep it clean here. There are plenty of costume shops where people can get really creative, both upscale and affordable. Some common themes for role-playing that I've enjoyed:

* Bad Cop, Bad Criminal

* Sick patient and sexy nurse

* Vampire and the long-lost love

* The Burglar that breaks in but then falls for the maiden in distress

* Pimp And Uh Lady of the Night

The great thing about role-playing is that while you are being intimate, you can take on a different personae, a different personalities, and have a lot of fun with this. You can also mix it up by starting off the night by lighting candles, putting on the appropriate music, and dimming the lights as you both get into character.

Another thing to think about is GEOGRAPHY. If they can rent a cabin out in the middle of nowhere, there's quite a rush when making love out in the wild, mixed in with nature. Of course, a word of caution, make sure you're not violating any laws or rules of the park / camp ground when you're doing this. Also make sure you know what kind of wild animals. One of my friends went out and rented a cabin in Montana only to find a Bear sniffing by their tent while they were getting ready!

Lastly, there are plenty of boardgames that cater to people over 18 years of age that really add spice to the intimacy. Many people also really like the velcro hand cuffs (the metals ones just HURT!). :P

Rod Cortez

Answer 3

Spontanaity is key! Tell her not to be afraid to initiate sex whenever she feels like it. Whether it be right there on the kitchen table while you're both preparing dinner (don't let dinner in the oven burn down the house though! ;) ) or while you're both reading the morning paper. You can be quite certain that he won't mind one bit (unless he legitimately has to be somewhere, and even then he probably won't mind too much!). All it takes is a few kisses and some carefully placed rubbing to make the guy go from 'not in the mood' to 'ready to rumble'.

Answer 4

Buy her the Kama Sutra. It has lots of new positions. Try blind folding. My hubby swears it's the best experience he as had. Can't see just feel.

Answer 5

Let them watch you two..Turn on for both parties..And it would appear that you are VERY into their business anyhow.

Answer 6

69 is always fun

Answer 7

wen urmouth meets his oldfella

Answer 8

SWAP

Answer 9

ADULT BOOK STORE!!!