I really want to see her again. I can't wait til this stupid thing expires, but I want to make sure the time is right. Sure, I did crazy things but that was because I wasn't on my meds. I think if she sees the new me she will like it.
2006-08-28 17:13:25 · 30 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man forget it move on with your life your life is infront of you not behingd you young man
2006-08-28 17:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer: Keep waiting... and move on.
You said, "I want to see her again".
You said, "If she sees the "new me" she will like It".
What you left out, is what "she" thinks....
half of the equation.
Furthermore, you continue with "I wasn't on my MEDICATION"
Dude, you need to really "wake up", and take a LONG, LONG, HARD LOOK IN THE MIRROR... PERIOD.
You have just blamed "everything", on something, or someone else, other than yourself, by using the word, "stupid".
A "Restraining Order" is not what you refer to as "stupid".
It is SERIOUS.
Do you think, (perhaps you do) that Restraining Orders can be bought at the local 7-11 like a lottery ticket?
NO. This woman had to hire a lawyer, pay them, take a ton of time off from work to go to court, to deal with YOUR PROBLEM.
All just to find some "peace".
To have a temporary, or
"T.R.O." (temporary restraining order) served to you, before going to court, were "then" examples of your behavior, with
documentation, witnesses, events were spelled out...
thats 90 days... automatic.
This gives you time to respond...
Especially if children are involved....
BEFORE a permanent RESTRAINING ORDER OF THE COURT
could be issued.
A "TRO" is one thing, a court issued restraining order is another, typically lasting 3 years.
Medication, call It what It is, OK? not your pussy "med's" is
no excuse...
Leave her alone...
move on....
learn from this experience...
become a real man.
Good Luck.
2006-08-28 17:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like there is a valid reason for the restraining order. You are obsessed....let the girl go. Take care of YOURSELF for a while and actually develop some life skills. You need to leave her alone or you will just have the restraining order EXTENDED indefinately. She is OFF LIMITS...so move on.
2006-08-28 17:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you shouldn't see her since you already have a new girl friend. I hope your issue is resolved with your new girlfriend wearing a 2 piece bathing suit and by the way now you have to deal with Mr. Wolfie and all those elf's and I hope your new girlfriend won't hurt you and make sure you take all your medication. Say hello to Mr. Wolfie and the elf's.
2006-08-28 18:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O_O.....if she has a restraining order against you, you may not want to go see her, because...chances are, she doesn't want to see you, hence the restraining order. but, if you've changed like you say, i would say about a month maybe. and don't just pop up and surprise her one day, call and chat and tell her that you've changed and would like to see her. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 17:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forever. She has the order and she did it for a reason. Can't you move on, or wait until your paths meet, like at the store or church? It seems it would be stalking her otherwise, and she'll probably get it renewed if you are attempting to talk.
2006-08-28 17:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by sheskiistoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she got the restraining order againt u u shouldn't go but if her parents u should wait like 2 days or 3 so they wont get suspicious!
2006-08-28 17:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tom M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls got a restraining order on you, leave her alone. Or she will go get another one. She isn't going to change her mind about you, so let her be.
2006-08-28 17:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by frog_h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems like it is over and you should just leave her alone. It may be hard for you but think of what is best for her. Good luck on the meds!
2006-08-28 17:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're on your meds? you obviously aren't thinking clearly. Here it is in plain english SHE TOOK OUT A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST YOU. I DON'T THINK ONCE IT EXPIRES SHE IS GOING TO WELCOME YOU BACK WITH OPEN ARMS. REMEMBER WHATEVER SHE DOES TO YOU INSIDE HER HOUSE IS NICE AND LEGAL. SHE COULD KNIFE YOU IN THE BACK AND GET AWAY WITH IT. REMEMBER, THE RESTRAINING ORDER WILL BOLSTER HER CASE.
2006-08-28 17:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by alias_47 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A restraining order is just another way of saying how much they care...if they didn't care they wouldn't have gone to the trouble...go see her now!!
KaptainK
2006-08-28 17:20:14 · answer #11 · answered by KaptainKahn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋