I have a bf and told him, and he's messed things up between us but I can't get the both of them out my mind. I am trying not to hurt anyone. But if I did pick the friends brother, how would I go about that, and would she totally hate me?
2006-08-28 17:12:57 · 19 answers · asked by Raeshel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your best friend....that is the only way to know for sure.
2006-08-28 17:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we hurt people not matter what we do. What you need to do is decide which one you really like, and act accordingly. Sorry about the reaction from your bf, but that's perfectly understandable. Well, how would you feel if he had a little moment with his best friends sister?
And, I don't think your best friend would hate you for dating her brother, why would she? I think that you should take that relationship (with her brother) seriously, not just a for the moment thing. If things don't work out, there should be no problem, but at least you should intent to go steady.
I dated my best friends cousin. I finally cut out with her, and my friend said that it was ok but didn't want to listen to any explanation. It probably was a healthy thing, anyway.
2006-08-29 00:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she reallly loves you as a friend then I would think that she'd be happy to have a great person with her brother.
The Boyfriend part is the not so good part. Not good to cheat..
If you do end up with her brother just make sure that you and she still do things as best friends and not just with her brother.
2006-08-29 00:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like typical HO to me, next time use your brain and not your vagina. And guess what, if you choose the boyfriend then he is going to be reminded about it everytime he sees your friend, and if you take the brother then it could possibly ruin your friendship with her. So hit me up to, hell you might as well go all out
2006-08-29 00:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a rule the friends brother should be out of bounds to you. Your friendship should be more important. It might be just infatuation. Time will tell but leave him alone. He should know this also.
2006-08-29 00:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you cheated on your boyfriend..
YOu told him and "HES MESSED THINGS UP"..
Far out.. you are a typical woman and you will get married and divorced and stuff up your children..
and it will all be the man's fault..
I'm glad I'll never meet you.. But they should put your picture on a website telling men to avoid you like the plague...
2006-08-29 00:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by simsjk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your bestfriend's bro younger than you? I don't think there would be a prob if you go out with your bstfriends bro, as long as you and your bf are really thru.
However, the guy should be the one to talk to his sister, if he really likes you. In that way, your bestfriend won't get offended.
Lastly, choose the guy who you really like.
2006-08-29 00:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from friends x's, and family. Take the safe route this way you dont loose a friend a boyfriend and a close friend.
2006-08-29 00:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by broadwayloverkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFENITLY do NOT go with your best friend's brother. if you do she will hate you and if you ask her if you can come over or something she will think you just want to come over for her brother. trust me i know.
2006-08-29 00:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by Emilie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the friend first and ask if she would mind then go get him and let your boyfriend know that its not fear to him if you dont feel the way you did anymore and he should find someone that will
2006-08-29 00:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by tisalish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋