i currently have a online boyfriend yeah stupid move i know but we have so much in common and we dont judge each other for the retarted thing we do like farting over the phone or whatever and i was wondering do they really work? cause im not to great in this department if they work.whats some ways to help make them work and what not to do and what to look out for if hes cheatting blah blah blah
2006-08-28 17:12:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It only works if you have the intention of someday in the near future moving near them or them moving near you. Otherwise its like what the above poster said. You can only do so much talking, there needs to be a physical bond as well. A relationship is only a friendship unless you can hold their hand, kiss, cuddle, and even make love together.
It sucks, but unless you can visit them on a regular basis or one of you moves close to the other, then its probably a waste of your time and emotions to consider it anything more than a friendship. And please don't try to move on the off chance that it might work. Relationships are hard work and most of them don't work out, so don't do something silly on the off chance that you'll win the lottery!
2006-08-28 17:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by mgrazus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people says it works, some people don't. It maybe because we're all uniquely different... I met my bf over the net and we have lot things in common as well as some contrasts and we're planning to get married.
I believe it depends on the way you two talks about. Are there any plans or even conversations that sounds serious that you need to give your trust? If you think you can trust him then give it a try, you'll never know unless you do...
Ways to make it work? hmmm... constant communication... me and my bf aside from chatting online, we constantly call overseas and/or send text messages...
2006-08-29 01:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by i really love him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They work if it's fairly easy to see each other in person. If you can't do that on a fairly regular basis it's most likely not going to work. Eventually one of you will find somebody in the real world and totally forget about the online partner. I've seen it happen many times.
2006-08-29 00:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are struggeling and hes in texas going to college and we've been going out for two years, and we love each other but distances strains people. You never met this guy so its easier but eventually your going to want things, like to cuddle and kiss him and hold hands. So its not that good of an idea in my mind. Its actually going to be what breaks my boyfriend and I up.
2006-08-29 00:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by broadwayloverkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goood virtual friend, try 4 virtual husband
2006-08-29 00:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by nagendra rai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not having a relationship.
2006-08-29 00:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by a g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him more
2006-08-29 21:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋