what should i do i'm clueless i mean i like this girl i liked her for a year or so and i finally got the guts to ask her out and i dont; won't to wait please help
2006-08-28 17:10:56 · 17 answers · asked by skye W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok there also this other chick her best friend which is me cousion i preay sure that she had some things to say about it
2006-08-28 17:17:18 · update #1
ok i dont' know what it matters but i'm in 11th grade i've had girlfreinds before i've been freinds with this girl since she moved here and i liked her since
2006-08-28 17:22:28 · update #2
go on a few dates
be nice
do stuff for her.. dont go over the top tho.. it might freak her out...lol
maybe shell change her mind and be ready
if she doesnt
just wait.. some girls need time
i dont..
but i know when i did
=)
btw.. what grade u in?
not that it matters.. my 1st bf was in 5th grade.. (im in 8th now) im just wonderin
lol
just dont give up on her
if u really trully like her.. dont give up...
2006-08-28 17:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this guy has already appeared at on the relationship. If he's not extremely avaiable to communicate it feels like there is yet another woman in the picture already and he's weighing his thoughts and protecting you round until eventually he comes to a decision if it is going to exercising person-friendly or not with the different woman. The lashing out is maximum likley his guilt coming by and he's maximum likley attempting to deep six the relationship so that you're the only which iniates the chop up.
2016-11-28 03:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a clear case of "tunnel vision". This is when you're so focused on ONE particular girl that you're missing out on other opportunities. I would take that to mean that she's not interested. Most women don't like to be mean if they are not interested in you so they'll say things like "I don't want a boyfriend right now" which you can reply and say "that's OK, I'm not looking for a girlfriend, I just want to go grab a Jamba Juice, kick it for a while and see if you're cool enough to hang out with..." or something along those lines.
The thing is you really do have to "move on" like the other poster said. Start talking to and flirting with other girls to improve your skill set. Indirectly let this girl see you flirting and dating other girls. Just based on your question you sound pretty young. You're going to meet a lot of girls over the course of your life.
I know that's not what you want to hear but it's the truth. I've been on hundreds of dates and one important truth that I've learned is that I only WANT a woman who WANTS me. Period.
Rod Cortez
2006-08-28 17:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no chance with her. sorry to break it to ya. the 'im not ready for a relationship right now' line is girl code for 'no way dude'.
go to doubleyourdating.com and get David D's stuff. I was in the same position as you once, and ive had girlfriends non stop since i read his book. sounds corny i know. just do it.
2006-08-28 17:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's telling you to pack it in and leave her alone. the whole "i need time" thing is just to postpone her having to crush you with rejection. My advice, if you still like this girl sooooo much, do something to change your look, mix things up and be confident. She might just come around. Be straight forward. Any sneaky stuff and she will prob unload on you with both barrels.
Megg90
2006-08-28 17:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Megg90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy. 9 times out of 10 that means not interested. but, maybe you'll be one of the lucky ones and she's really just too busy. Give it time and don't act too needy. Girls hate that.
2006-08-28 17:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, Same thing happend to me. Just move on. Girl's now a days just wanna chill & experience that single life : ) besides.. THERE`S WAY MORE CHICC`S
2006-08-28 17:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by preciiouszboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man... same situation as me... but i'm the girl in this case.
seriously, if she's not going to show any signs of liking u in future, move on. dun waste ur time on love that cant happen.
2006-08-28 17:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, she wants you alright.... but in that knife in your heart 'friend' kind of way. Had the saaaame thing happen a few times till I figured it out.
2006-08-28 17:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Koklor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but it sounds as if she isn't interested. She just didn't want to come right out and tell you that she isn't interested. Find someone else.
2006-08-28 17:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋