we've been together since christmas eve 05 and we talk on the phone, see each other alot, and msn if we get desperate (lol) but its kind of long distance, and i know some of his friends, and i went down to see him (sorta) and i saw him hanging out with a girl but i just left, went back home, he doesnt mention the other girl but a mutual friend told me hes been screwing and talkin to this girl and he really likes her and then one of my friends told me that same.
he treats me the same, still tells me he loves me and i love him more than anything in the world, we fight alot (because we care so much about each other) its hard having a long distance relationship but i love him and ive done some bad things to do but none of it meant anything, i care about him and i love him and i know he loves me.
its just so hard right now to be in a relationship but i dont want to break up with him, when we break up we usually try to date other ppl, end up dating other ppl for like 3 weeks
2006-08-28 17:05:58 · 7 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
& then we get right back together, because i cant stand being away from him, i love him when im with other ppl yeah im having fun, but at the end of the night hes the one im thinking about , i dont want anyone else, i want to have fun, but i want him, and i know i cant have both, being with him is fun, its just the states :(
i love him with all my heart hes my soulmate.
what should i do? do i break it off? :( everyone says i should but..
2006-08-28 17:07:00 · update #1
I DIDNT TELL HIM I SAW HIM & THE GIRL.
2006-08-28 17:07:37 · update #2
i know i should but its so hard because i love him so much and i cant imagine not having him, i dont know what to do im confused and so foolish i know.
2006-08-28 17:16:21 · update #3
we're 18 & 19. :'( i love him and ive done bad things before thats how i know he can still love me and do something stupid.
2006-08-28 17:17:20 · update #4
What is the problem with him and the other girl? You said you did bad things too??? #1: How old are you? #2. How old is he?
Okay...the whole problem right now is that you're apart, it is very hard to have a relationship when you really can't spend any time together. You both have every right to feel lonely, so you both end up being with other people. Why not tell each other that it is okay to date others while you are separated like this and once you can move to the same place - then really date each other the way most people are able to. Give each other a break from the almost impossible (trying to have a close relationship) and you will just have to trust that what is meant to be...will be. Allow each other to date, that way if it still turns out that you two only want each other you both will have no doubt about it. You have a lifetime ahead of you......both of you need to just relax....finish school and plan for your future with or without him.
2006-08-28 17:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships never work. It doesn't matter how much you think you love the person. If he is seeing someone else and your friends have told you about it and you have seen him with the other person, confront him. See how he reacts and how he explains it. Then tell him you need to move on, just like he has. I know it will be hard. But you will survive. Just give it a little time. And you will meet a great guy, that you will have strong feelings for, and you won't know what you were doing chasing after this cheater. Just move on. ANd you will be fine.
2006-08-29 00:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THE REAL QUESTION HERE IS ARE YOU GOING TO ACCEPT WHAT HE IS DOING??
IF YOU ARE THEN KEEP GOING THE WAY YOU ARE!! IF NOT NEED TO TELL HIM WHAT YOU SAW AND WHAT YOU KNOW(as hard as it might be it needs to be done). THEN YOU AND HIM NEED TO DECIDE WHAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT!! IF YOU DECIDE TO GO ON A BREAK THEN BE STRONG AND HAVE FUN WITH OTHER PEOPLE JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM FOR A WHILE(it may be hard but you can do it)
AND IM NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN BUT I WAS WONDERING HOW IS IT THAT YOU CAN STAY WITH A PERSON THAT IS CHEATING ON YOU??? I DID LONG DISTANCE AND THE GUY SCREWD ME ROUND SOOO MUCH AND ALWAYS SAID HE LOVED ME BUT IN MY HEAD HOW COULD HE IF ALL HE WAS DOING WAS HURTING ME AND JUSTIFYING IT BY SAYING A FEW LITTLE WORDS!! I WILL NEVER PUT UP WITH A GUY CHEATING ON ME AGAIN!!!
I REALLY HOPE THAT YOU FIGURE OUT THAT YOU ARE WORTH MORE BEFORE HE REALLY HURTS YOU!!!
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-29 00:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound far too immature for a long distance relationship, or probably any relationship at that. Yes, break up with him and get on with it. It takes two special people to make that kind of situation work. And once a cheater, always a cheater and yes I'm almost certain he's cheating on you!
2006-08-29 00:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello?! You think he loves you? Its pretty clear he was dating someone else which means he was cheating on you. If he loves you and cares about you so much and respects you he wouldnt do that to you and more-over kept it to himself.. how come he never mentioned the other girl? Anyway. .You're better Off so move on and good luck
2006-08-29 00:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMIGOD...Grow up girl. Break it off and end it because you both are using each other. Wow....what a head case.
2006-08-29 00:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut things up with him... not worth your time...
go girl... you'll get over him before u even know...
start going out with other prospects... you'll never know what you're missing, girl!
2006-08-29 00:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥vaginamonologue♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋