I met my boyfriend through internet...we have been a couple for 3 years...but we not meet in person yet...only from chatting and by phone...I'm from Indonesia..and my boyfriend is from USA...right now I live in USA already...only different city from him...I live in LA and he live in Texas...I have been in LA for 3 months already...but he not meet me yet...thats why I'm very curious about that...please tell me what to do????
2006-08-28 17:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by naomi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's time you and he had a talk - if you two aren't going to be together, then what's the point of dating? Three years is a long time to go without ever having met. It sounds a little to me like he's stringing you along.
2006-08-28 17:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by ceekryt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to have online relationships, most of the time is because the people are lying to you. If you have been dating him for 3 years online, and he doesn't want to meet you in real life, chances are that he is with someone else, maybe a girlfriend, even a wife. you just never know. I would say not to "date" him anymore and find someone to be with that lives close to you and you can actually see in person.
2006-08-29 00:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its n online thing. Its all talk. You say he's your boyfriend. But you have never met after 3 years. How do you know hes not married and has kids or has a girlfriend. And just playing with your emotions. Guys like to do that. I would be careful. I would find out what his intentions are. ANd make some defanite plans.
2006-08-29 00:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a couple, you are just Internet affiliates. If you want to meet him, e-mail him that you are in LA and you would like to meet him. See how he feels about this. Good luck.
2006-08-29 00:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an actual physical boyfriend. If he doesn't want to see you in person it's probably because he's with somebody else that you don't know about.
2006-08-29 00:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to remain just your online boyfriend. If he really wanted to be with you nothing could stop him. Move on with your life if he doesn't make it to see you.
2006-08-29 00:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go see him and surprise him, He'd either like it or not. If he didnt then he was actually playing games with you then it would be time to move on.
2006-08-29 00:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to him online.... the majority of people online in these dating services usually stop chatting and the other will get the point
2006-08-29 00:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see him, or tell him to come see u. if that doesnt work get a real bf. its LA there are millions to pick from.
2006-08-29 00:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It costs a lot of money to travel, so you go to him, or just wait til he comes to you. There are not very many other options.
2006-08-29 00:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋