When have you had like your first fight with your girlfriend/boyfriend? I have a girlfriend now and me and her have been going out for about a month and me and her are basically head over heels for each other...me and her have never argued nor have we ever been angry at each other...We both feel a strong connection between each other and I'm just feeling that we will never fight about anything which is good. But I've also heard that the only good relationships you can have are ones where you fight with each other often..
2006-08-28 16:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by devilmaycry42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wrong! Good couples respect each other. It is the pig-headed, selfish, childlike, immature, couples who argue. It is basically their mindset. They are still children at heart - sorry, not children, brats - spoiled rotten brats who still want their say. It is a battle of egos. Who gets the last word? And remember, no one wins in an arguement. Do you know why? Because each has a point to prove. It is the mentality "I will never give up my side, my spouse is wrong."
Disagreements are fine. But it is very rare that couples are happy. I hope your relationship lasts rosy forever. Another fad is that it is cool, okay to fight and argue. No it is not. And if you dont confirm to what the rest of the world is doing, they label you a wuss. So be it. If you are mature enough and your girlfriend to not let personal egos take over your relationship, you will do extremely well. Good luck.
2006-08-28 17:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jack D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wroooooooong! I had 3 long term relationships before I found my wife and we never fight! we have an argument here and there, but nothing serious, and this is what I was looking for: a partner to discuss and find solutions, no to create more, we don't go to extremes and we are very different, but with only one thing in common: tolerance. The previous relationships were 3 big disappointments but I knew I'd found my partner! We are sooooo lucky!!!!
2006-08-29 00:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I had the first one after a couple of months because I went on a trip and my girlfriend had "time to think". She was fine before but when I came back she decided that she didn't like where our relationship was and she had an attitude with me. Problem is that people are moody and women in general are more moody and if they don't forgive and forget things will add up over time. Make sure you handle the situation properly, loving her but being firm and fair.
2006-08-29 00:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by sandstorm222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the honeymoon stage and on your best behavior. You are certain to have disagreements but if you really respect eachother and accept eachother you realize that you don't sweat the small stuff and need to argue all the time. You pick arguments for things that really matter and then usually in a healthy relationship agree to disagree. Sounds like you respect eachother! Bravo~
2006-08-29 00:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely normal. One month is NOTHING. You see, I didn't fall in love with my guy for 4 months down the road since I met him. We went on for about 4 months without fighting. Now, we fight over little things and big things.. but you know you're in love when you fight but you love the little quirks about them when they get mad.
You're still early in your relationship. You can still have a grand relationship without fighting. Fighting is just something that occurs when personalities and ideas conflict and burst into anger or frustration. Unless you're both extremely passive, you can never fight and STILL be madly in love.
2006-08-29 00:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually couples argue every once in awhile. It's only good that couples fight w/ eachother because that means that they can get through rough times and still love eachother.
2006-08-29 00:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by lady_buss_54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disagreements, yes. Fighting? I'm not so sure fighting often is healthy. I think its too new for you yet. Let your relationship develop as it will.
2006-08-29 00:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by nokhada5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any relationship there are going to be differences, thats a gimme, but no, fighting is not good discussing is. in any healhty partnership there is a give and take 50-50, thats the best way to solve problems. you pat my back, i pat yours, so to speak.
2006-08-29 00:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by tajura001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couples fight when they have a disagreement or find out a secret that they don't like. Either tell her your secrets in a way she'll be ok w/ or don't tell her at all
2006-08-29 00:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by just tht kid over there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've only fought with me GF when it comes to things that i have conflicting interests than her and i feel really strongly about my side, and the biggest argument we had was when she defended her friend who i really hated and she brought up a couple of good points that made me rethink about my hatred towards him.
2006-08-29 00:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋