Okay so to re-phrase my last question, I'm having trouble with riding my BF? Basically I feel uncomfortable on top of him cause I have a complex about my body, does anyone have any idea how I can get over my fear and ride him like a cowgirl????
2006-08-28 16:48:04 · 21 answers · asked by wldsxychild 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all about self confidence. Just stop thinking about how conscience you are of the way you look, and think about what is happening right then...you have to get your mind on what's important there. You can't be too big, otherwise he wouldn't let you on top wink wink. Just relax, and concentrate on enjoying yourselves...watch your boyfriend, his expressions should give you the confidence you need. If all else fails...do it with the lights completely off..and work your way up to daytime.
2006-08-28 16:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by loubean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never saw your last question....
so here goes....
when you say that you have a "complex" about your body..
I think obviously that there must be "something" that you wish..
wasn't there...
Most women seek "perfection" based on a pre-conceived notion of what pretty/hot/sexy is.. then compare themselves to that ...
And that Is sad.
All women are beautiful... this "complex" as you describe it, lies
only within you.... not your boyfriend. Trust me.
He's your BOYFRIEND for a reason...
please don't let your thoughts get in the way!
It doesn't matter if it's weight, age, tattoos, stretch marks, "my boobs are to small/large, etc. just let It go.
Life Is too short... you want to ride him like a cowgirl...
then enjoy yourself and do so.
Believe me, you won't be sorry.
Your complex will disappear after you witness his reaction. (!).
2006-08-29 00:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him wear a condom! You get some "morning after" plan B pills if you are over 18 years old. If you get pregnant, marry the daddy before you give birth so your child won't hate you both forever!
2006-08-29 00:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's having sex with you then he obviously finds you to be very attractive. You just have to realize that its all in your head and that in his mind, you're a beautiful, sexy woman! You'll just have to try to enjoy the moment and not think so much when you're mid-coitus.
2006-08-28 23:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by mgrazus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dim the lights really low or use just a few candles, they cast soft shadows that hide imperfections.
You boyfriend wouldn't be with you if he didn't like your body...do worry so much about it.
Girls in magazines are usually airbrushed....so you are a real person with no airbrushing...you just have to get used to it or do something to change it.
2006-08-28 23:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart he obviously likes the way you look or he wouldnt be with you...and im here to tell you that men love confidant woman...so saddle up baby and ride him...he'll love you for it.
2006-08-28 23:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by hopes_angel69 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is he uncomfortable with your body? if he is . . . send him packing and tell him to find a lipo/implant/tucked girl of his dreams out of the photoshopped magazines
2006-08-28 23:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by marcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then be on botton, and if you don't like that, then just don't have as much sex then you did before, simple.
2006-08-29 00:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by OMGit'sme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, what he said.
obviously your bf doesnt have a problem with your body.
2006-08-28 23:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Silberswarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a bag over your head and get really drunk.
2006-08-28 23:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋