I have known this guy for about 3 months but we only see each other about every three weeks he spends alot of time with his daughter but I feel like im on stand by or something but I really love him
2006-08-28 16:46:08 · 9 answers · asked by fairy19672002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well girl, forget about love for a couple of minutes and try to think about the situation. In most cases, at least 95% of them, it's just a wate of time, and will make you suffer. Long distance realtionships never work, but if there is a chance that in the future you will see each ither more frequently, and you think he is really worth it, then please hold on, be patient and the reward will be great.
Good luck, and please, don't let anyone step over you.
2006-08-28 16:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Seleuco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him it's worth the wait, besides it's only been 3 months give it some more time and in the mean time be faithful! I'm in a long distance relationship too and i've been with this guy for 1 year and 3 months and it's been amazing. The distance makes the heart grow fonder!!!
2006-08-28 16:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by wldsxychild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should stay with it and give it a chance. I'm in similar situation and i get to see my man every two months trust me it's hard but if it was to easy i don't think i would want it and plus i love him. your not on stand by you have to share him with his daughter and if the two of you are going to b together for a while she will still be there. you have to include her. and if all else fails look like you are going to b moving where he is to get a little closer and then you won't have to worry about distance. good luck!
2006-08-28 17:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by ms1choc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to decide whether this is the kind of relationship that works for you. Long distance relationships require a lot of patience and trust. Do you see it going anywhere... do you get to spend quality time when you are together? Good luck !
2006-08-28 16:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by angel007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that fact that you are even asking this question means you should not be in the relationship. if you've only know the guy for 3 months, move on. 3 months is nothing. it sounds like you want someone who is going to be able to committ more of his time to you, so find someone who does not have major, more important obligations, such as children.
2006-08-28 16:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Peanuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems when you asked your question you've already got doubts about the relationship. Maybe you need a breather from one another and figure out what you really want without being tied down. I wish you the best.
2006-08-28 16:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Leela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be faithful in any sexual relationship, period. If you want to get laid more often by a local, then break up with the guy. Unless you tell him you want to have sex with a local and he says "Ok."
2006-08-28 16:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question that means that you should probably break the relationship off.
2006-08-28 16:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by ashleyswgl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NUMBER ONE KIDS COME FIRST SO LEARN TO ACCEPT THAT. AFTER 3 MONTHS YOU DONT REEEALLLLY LOVE HIM. AGREE TO JUST DATE AND SEE WHERE IT GOES.
2006-08-28 17:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by PATRICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋