myboyfriend was sleeping with other girls but i cant let him free because i love him so much and he always telling me that he also love me more than other girls he's sleeping with.plz help me i dont what to do
2006-08-28 16:41:51 · 30 answers · asked by jaelene_14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, any guy who would sleep with other girls, even though it hurts you, does not love you. If you stay with him and allow him to treat you that way then you don't love yourself. Dump the guy, ASAP.... he's not gonna change. Try to find something that will occupy your time, hang out with your friends, just do something other than think about him. You'll get over him eventually and be better off without him. Good luck! Be strong!
2006-08-28 16:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by tzila99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? And ur still with him? What are u thinking girl? U should have been dumping his ***!!! And he could even say those to you? Any guy like that doesnt deserve a girl.. I dont understand u girls.. Why are u putting up with this at all?? Dont make urself looks so desperate. Ur worth so so soooo much more than that.. and im so so soooo very sure u can have a better guy that this.. Heck he is not even a guy.. He's a dog.. an animal thats what he is.. What a disgrace to us guys.. real disgraceful.
Listen to this piece of advice girl.. this guy doesnt deserve ur love. He just want some ***.. and he is just using you and probably thought that ur easy and that he is damn smooth cos he can talk his way through u. U got to stand up and tell him to go eat **** and die.. and get out of ur life. He is truly pathetic
2006-08-28 23:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Syed A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question that you want advise on. I'm sorry i guess you want sympathy because you are in love with a fool that supposedly say he loves you (your claim). He admits to sleeping with other women.
Sorry, but i'm just shocked that you want a response.
Well let me give you one since you bravely came here and typed this question - Woman get out while you still can before your self esteem sinks any lower or even worse you catch yourself some incurable disease.
2006-08-29 00:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him right now. Talk is cheap. He can tell you whatever he wants but he doesn't have to mean it. His actions are speaking louder than anything he's saying! He's saying that he doesn't love you enough to respect you. Don't be so weak! There are plenty of other guys out there that will love you and respect you because you deserve it! If you stay there is only hardship and heartbreak in your future. And try not to think that you love him so much because it isn't love if he doesn't truly love you back..
2006-08-28 23:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by mgrazus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he would not break your trust and make you confused On yahoo answers. Tell him the truth. You want to see other people. He will cut you off so go on with your life. Have your fun and some day he will grow up and get a life.
2006-08-28 23:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's sleeping with other girls, HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!!! If he did, he'd treat you with the respect and dignity you deserve, and he'd be faithful to you. Lose this loser!! You can do WAAAY better, and not only that, if he sleeps around, there's no telling what he can bring you home, if you know what I mean!! Think about it, he's killing you--mentally and physically. It's not worth it!!!!! I know you love him, but it's seriously time to move on.
2006-08-28 23:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you more than the other girls he is sleeping with, he would not be sleeping with them in the first place. You are allowing him to lower yourself and walk all over you cuz he knows he can.. Get the hell out before he totally destroys your self esteem! No one is worth loosing their own self respect over, and trust me, you will end up with long term issues with trust and low self esteem!
2006-08-28 23:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by sweetmercy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, according to the bible polygamy (men having multiple wives) isn't wrong but sleeping with prostitutes is. If he is sleeping with prostitutes tell him to quit. Also, have him get checked for STD's. You do not need to contact that kind of crap.
2006-08-28 23:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by sandstorm222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.
He is not committed to you and it will only lead to more heartache in the future.
Imagine if you had a baby and he was still sleeping with others!!!
2006-08-28 23:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by Thorburn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just lieing to you. He wants to keep you as his backup to the other girls because he knows you will always be thier. So leave him and find you a real man who will treat you right.
2006-08-28 23:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋