I recently got rejected by the girl i liked, and it really got me down. She said that she liked me at one point but was interested in someone else.
Ever since i have lost my touch with some conversation starters with girls, and knowing how to read them. So what i want to know for you girls, is what are the requirments for you to say yes to a guy who asked you out
2006-08-28 16:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-28 16:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Derek G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rejection sucks no matter how you slice it. We all go through it - it IS just a part of life. Not to discount your feelings but I think at some point you should try the best you can to pick yourself up, dust yourself off & try again with someone else. There is no sure definite answer for chemistry - either its "there" or its not. What if a girl you thought was nice liked you - but you didn't like her quite the same way? All I'm saying is to try not to take it too personal - the right one that is meant for you WILL come along!!
2006-08-28 16:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by JeyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as what we all know, different person have different characters..and so with us, girls!!
I think, before you open up your feelings to the one you love, you should befriend her first. Get to know her better and get to know all her favorites and likes (as possible). Every woman has a weak point in which they can utter the word "yes".
And one thing, aside from respect, you should always carry your humor wherever you go because mostly girls are fond of guys who makes them smile or laugh!! Be sincere in dealing important issues specially if that is very vital on her part..
Don't ignore the signs that the girl may give you.. study her every reactions so that you can identify if what she really wants you to do!! Lastly, be confident enough to ask her out.. (specially if you are already intimate)
GooD LuCK!!
2006-08-28 16:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by cecille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't any specific steps to get a girl to say yes. Infact there's no sure way. It depends on how well you can connect with the girl.
When you talk to girls in school start up with, "so how do you like so and so's class?" You can talk about movies you both like and then after you feel comfortable with her, ask her if she'd like to see a particular movie with you. Ask her if it would be okay if it was just the two of you. See how that goes, and if it went well, ask her out again.
2006-08-28 16:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what...there are really no requirements that girls have because it is different for everyone. I usually appreciate when a guy is sincere and upfront and doesn't use corny pick-up lines. Just be yourself and you will find the right girl! Good luck.
2006-08-28 17:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by prairiefire_14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no certain criteria...not a list or anything. There just has to be a connection, a spark if you will. It's all in the eyes. Of course, the guy can't be a jerk...or stupid, that is total turnoff. Just be yourself...we all get rejected once in a while. It stings, but you'll get over it.
2006-08-28 16:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by loubean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend just be youself. Learn to accept that like you she too has choices and the choice may not be you. Just be friendly with her till she realises. If she chooses someone else, try to complement her genuinely. This is hard but that is life you see. This way you will keep up your self respect and when (if at all) things go sour, she will remember to come back to you.
2006-08-28 16:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerity is important. We can usually tell when a guy is a gentleman or just a fraud looking for a one-nighter. When you approach a woman, are you looking into her eyes, or just undressing her with yours?
2006-08-28 16:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feelings! if i don't have feelings for the guy, i won't go out on date with him. it's all about feelings and it just comes so naturally w/o him having to do so much things about it.
2006-08-28 16:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, they have to be sincere and not corny and look me in the face when they talk to me...........
2006-08-28 16:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋