a guy i was seein slept with another girl but reassured me that " i mean more to him then the girls he sleeps with" ? and that "when im older ill understand"...im 19 hes 25
2006-08-28 16:33:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i dont sleep wit him b/c he says he cares bout me and that we agreed im not ready...so confusing! = `(
2006-08-28 16:48:47 · update #1
Mean he got caught and is trying to bullsh!t ya.... If you meant MUCH to him he wouldn't have done it.
2006-08-28 16:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you must understand that I am a guy so when I say this it should be taken seriously......Leave his sorry A**!!!!! He is sooooo full of S**T you could grind him up and fertilize the entire Mississippi Delta! The only thing he wants from you is what is in your pants and clearly he thinks you are stupid if he thinks you will believe his line of BS. Sugar you can do MUCH better. Lose that jerk and find a man that really cares about you for more than what is in your pants.
2006-08-28 16:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look honey, there may be an age difference but that is no excuse for him sleeping around with other women. Don't let youth blind you to when a man is treating you so horribly. Break up with him. He's no good and doesn't deserve you. There's someone out there who will be able to make you happy and love you, and stay true to you. Just keep on looking until you find him. I wish you good luck.
2006-08-28 16:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His answer isn't going to make any more sense when your 35 than it does now. You'll just be wiser and not willing to believe him. Let me just see if I understand this........ Your older boyfriend is sleeping with at least one other girl, and thinks you should be fine with it because "YOU" mean more to him?? And your asking what it means?? It means your getting used. Don't settle for a jerk....there are lots of good faithful men our there. Don't be in such a hurry to grab the first one who stands still in front of you.
2006-08-28 16:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28...dump the dirt bag...when he says that he means..."I'm enjoying getting some on the side and you are not important enough for me to either wait for or be monogomous with."
A guy that sleeps with girls he doesn't care for is not ready for a commited relationship! He's setting himself up for a very nasty wake up call when one of his girls gets pregnant or he finds out he's got something that can't be cured!
protect yourself because if you sleep with him you are sleeping with everyone he has ever been with...and condoms don't protect 100% of the time.
2006-08-28 16:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i told you then my game is over.... anyways he means that you mean more to him because you could be number 12 or 59 on his bone list. don't fall for dat stuff because a guy who believes that you mean a lot to him wouldn't do that. even when you get older depending on how ur feeling some women just want to have pleasure and not have the relationship.
2006-08-28 16:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to put as much distance between you and this guy as you can. He is not what you're looking for. You deserve much better than this loser. I hope I didn't offend you, but it's the truth. He's just playing you. Take care and God Bless!
2006-08-28 16:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him ... he's an a s s... putting it nicely! He thinks with his dick and is very immature even if he is 25. Age is nothing - respect shown to you means much more.
2006-08-28 16:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by kindone@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it's a lie. If he valued you there would be no other.It's a lame excuse to being a pig. What you'll understand in a few years is what you could understand now........he was walking on you!!!
2006-08-28 16:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by doshidoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy is he a jerk or what...Tell him that you are old enough to understand that he is cheating on you and that if you did mean more to him , then he wouldn't be sleeping around.....Tell him to leave and be with his other gf
2006-08-28 16:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that guy you are seeing is not worth it.
you don't need to wait until you're older to understand.
it's pretty plain to the fact, he cheated on you and now he's trying to make you confused as to why.
2006-08-28 16:36:45 · answer #11 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋