my curren b/f and i have been going out for about a year.all my friends think he's a total ***,but i see something special in him.so anywayz,when i'm not with him but my other friends are they've told me he's all over any girl that walks by him.it's really starting to piss me off.but i dont want to break up with him.i mean he's so sweet and caring when i'm around but i dont know who to believe,him or my friends?and then on top of all that he has been fooling around with one of my best friends and i dont want to believe that he's cheating on me but idk
2006-08-28 16:28:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When people that don't know each other tell you the something believe it . move on you be better off there are other guy's that can treat you better you just have to find them
2006-08-28 17:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is blind and can blind you as a bat. The old cliche is: " If 1 or 2 people tell you, don't believe it. if three or more tell you, be wary!" No matter what special you see in him, step back and take a breath. Think before you commit. One meets many through their life journeys and some, do not want to let go. Now is the time to rethink the situation and reconsider the relationship...For you I would be real leery and seek out another, but not on a rebound! On a rebound you often hurt the person you have newly been dating. You have a lot of time ahead of you-use it to your best ability...Move on to a better relationship and let the past be swept to the side...:) :) :)
2006-08-28 23:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life we see only what we want to. Could there be some sort of conspiracy (by your friends) against you and your boyfriend being together? Probably not. Right now, I think that you are standing too close to the trees to be able to see the forest. Take a few steps back, gather all the facts and then re-access the situation. But most of all, don't let anyone make a fool of you.
2006-08-28 23:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by up all night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to take, but you should probably always listen to your friends. They have a better point of view on the situation than you do most of the time because they aren't blinded by "love". If your friends are saying these things its not because they don't like the guy, its probably because its true. And if they don't like a guy, there's probably a good reason for it. Trust your friends!
2006-08-28 23:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by mgrazus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude i totally understand you... my ex and i r thinkin of going back out but all my frnds tell me that hes a liar and that they see him all over other chicks but i dont wanna believe i mean why wuld all ur frnds lie to u but he denys it all.... and yes he s kissed 1 of my close frnds b4 and has told my best friend he loves her yet im still crzy over him we've been like this for about a year and i really dont know what to do.. try to investigate for ur self and get any info abbot him tat u can get remember were girls and we are d*mn good at finding gossip out good lucks
2006-08-28 23:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by babe11_92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this guy is definitely doin' you wrong. Dump him like yesterday's garbage,it doesn't really matter how long u've known him, you can do alot better. Sorry that you had to find out this way, but at least you didn't marry this jerk and have his kids, right?
2006-08-28 23:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you friends lie to you? They are looking out for you, you need to listen to them. If he is fooling around with one of your best friends, you need to get rid of both of them.
2006-08-28 23:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this dude is really playing you. Don't be his fool anymore. Move on to someone who will respect you even when your not around.
2006-08-28 23:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Still a Sexy Momma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is chasin other girls then get your friends to snap a pic on their phones....if he is then leave him
2006-08-28 23:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut feeling if anything else.
2006-08-28 23:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jonnae L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋