I like my friends brother and recently just broke up with my bf because of it. He wants me to be sure, so he says were over, but I want him he wants me, but I also want my friends brother, I don't know how I'm supposed to go about that. Do I just go out with my ex. and have a friend with benefits? Or stop completely. and feel bad?
2006-08-28 16:26:25 · 10 answers · asked by Raeshel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to see id there is a spark with the other guy before u do anything else with ur ex bf.
2006-08-28 16:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself who can you see yourself with? Who can you pass moments with and be happy for a long time...There will be a winning one and if you cant get one out of your head then dont go with any because the worst thing you cand do is be with both you will end up feeling like a whore and trust me that´s not pretty...
2006-08-28 23:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be honest with yourself first off. you know what you want and you want both. that is not fair to your bf and your friends brother. you are the only benefiting from these. please take into consideration the people you are involving yourself with feelings. who makes you happy?
2006-08-28 23:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by want_me_luv_me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetely do not be a friend with benefits thats tacky. u need to make a decision and stick with it
2006-08-28 23:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the guy you were with and give it a shot. If you find yourself being unable to commit then tell him straight up.
2006-08-28 23:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant have your cake and eat it to...one or the other has got to go... do you blame him for saying its over if you want this other guy??? you must be very young, otherwise you would know this will never work out.
2006-08-28 23:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS STOPING GAMES WITH THESE
MEN FEELINGS, IF YOU ARE NOT SURE ABOUT WHAT YOU
WANT THEN YOU NEED TO LEAVE BOTH OF THEM ALONG
]UNTIL YOU FIGURE OUT WHO YOU WANT. OTHER WISE
YOU MAY IN UP BY YOURSELF WHY YOU PLAYING THESE
GAMES GIRLFRIEND.
2006-08-28 23:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you feel better with? go with them. if u can't decide then back away and have some time to yourself to think about what you want
2006-08-28 23:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wouldnt want to be one of two girls for a guy then have one guy only.treat people how you would like to be treated.
2006-08-28 23:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to ponder that one a while if I was you
2006-08-28 23:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋