i like him alot... but its just he doesn't call me ... ever, we only talk online.. and i want to talk t him about it... but i dont'know how
2006-08-28 16:18:23 · 24 answers · asked by jdyson06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he hates phones. A lot of guys do not like to talk on the phone.
If you only know him from online, then beware! He might not be who he is portraying himself to be and that is why he won't call.
2006-08-28 16:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a rule, guys do not like talking on the phone. Mine says this all the time. But I find it odd that your bf never picks up the phone. How do you do communication-wise OTHER than the computer? Like, do you see each other very much in person? How did you meet? And how long have you been dating? Does he get very in-depth about your relationship when online? Don't answer these outright, just think about them.
Tell him that you would like to talk to him more. There's no harm in asking. If he declines, it may be that he's not as into the relationship as you are. You decide what to do from there. Good luck.
2006-08-28 16:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jonnae L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women emphasize verbal communication and men don't. Most guys don't like to talk things out. Especially younger guys. He may be with his guy friends or may be prohibited from calling during certain hours. Is he far away?
Since you only "talk" on line, why don't you bring up the subject while on line? Or arrange to meet him somewhere and bring up the subject. He may surprise you with a reasonable explanation for not calling.
Having said that, what are you willing to do if he refuses to call you on the phone? Will you dump him? Is he worth keeping just to have Internet conversations?
Good luck!
2006-08-28 16:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your boyfriend or a boy whose a friend. Either way does he know how you feel about him. If he does and still won't call you then you already have your answer or you can try calling him and if he hurries off the phone or say let me call you back everytime you call him and never does - sorry to say but ''just not into you."
Especially with the online thing takes nothing to really type a few lines and i bet he takes forever to respond and you're the one doing all the typing.
Sorry sweetie, but you already have your answer.
2006-08-28 16:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't have anything to say to you. listen, I've had this brought to my attention by all my ex's many a time. here's the thing if i talk to you online why would i call you? do you honestly think there is some life changing event that took place between him last talking to you and the burrito he cooked five minutes later. I'm not a emotionally disconnected person but sometimes i really have nothing new to say to the girl. don't sweat it.
2006-08-28 16:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by SHARKIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like he feels more comfortable expressing himself by writing. It isn't necessary a bad thing. I have a wonderful BF that loves to IM me love letters and he writes the most wonderful emails....and yep we talk...But HOW MANY WOMEN would kill for the collection of love letters I have...that I can go back and reread to my heart's content. The spoken word is not captured...but the written word...ah...there is a bit of permanence with them.
2006-08-28 16:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me i had this happen before. i was really upset by it when people started pointing it out that if he really liked me, he'd call. i learned that a lot of guys just dont do the phone thing. but i can see it bothers you a lot, so yea just talk to him.
:) good luck.
2006-08-28 16:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by azndiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you would feel closer to him if you got more opportunities to talk on the phone and that you would appreciate if he called you more. it goes both ways--if you want to talk more, consider taking the initiative to call him. maybe after that he will feel more comfortable giving you a call.
2006-08-28 16:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by stellar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him miss you too , if he does not call then do some other things,,,dont make your self too available some men like their women mysterious not too demanding ,,,he knows you care so he does not need to constantly call you
give him space and time make him want you by not calling let him initiate the first move
2006-08-28 16:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him straight up, say why want you call don't you like me, sayin online would be easy then face to face or on the phone. just ask!!!
2006-08-28 16:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by Karina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋