i'm 15 and so is he. so whenever we were in history class last year, he kepton asking me how the tests went for me.. but then when we get them back he braged that he got A's. And then on the street, he randomly called out my name, when I never gave it to him and his friends don't know me. he was in the history class after mine.. so he couldn't have known my name from class.
my friend says he's not shy at all.. so if he liked me.. wouldn't he have already asked me out? what does he want.. if he's so un-shy, then why didn't he talk to me yet?? and now i can't stop thinking about him... oh, and last thing!! he's really popular.. and i'm kinda not. so why would he like me? isn't it against his stupid popularity rules to date a girl lower in the social chain? wouldn't his friends laugh at him? the worst part is that we have another class together this year. and i tried saying hi to him.. but he completely ignored me. so what does he want from me?? jeez i'm really confused... what to do?
2006-08-28 16:04:21 · 5 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he ignored you completely maybe he was afraid that his friends would laugh at him for talking to you, but I dont see why that if a problem because if they make fun of him then they arent really his friends, and if he was afraid of that then he isnt worth your time. My friends know that if I like a girl they better not criticize because I dont say anything bad about them or their girls. He might also be shy around you but no matter how shy he should say hi. Popularity doesnt really matter, the only thing that matters is how both people feel about each other. You are making a big mistake because you are bringing yourself down, what makes him more 'popular' than you popularity is a stupid high school term that is used to measure people. You should ask him if he likes you or not, sometimes that is the best thing someone can do.Hope this helps:)My source is 3 years of high school experience, and also having a friend that went through the same thing. In the end I ended up asking this guy if he liked my friend, it turned out he did like her but he was shy & he didnt know what to say to her.
2006-08-28 16:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would work on your self esteem you are not in a lower social class because he is in a different group. He sounds like a player I would let him talk to you first and don't act to desperate!
Get to know him if he talks to you and see if he is even worth being around! I am sure you have a lot to offer so don't start off on the wrong foot by thinking you are lucky if he says hi!
I think you want the challenge and you should be more into what someone else can offer you than worrying about what he thinks!
If he likes you he will let you know and if he don't so what it is his loss! Good luck!
2006-08-28 23:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably just being friendly. Just treat him like a friend, if he likes you he'll eventually ask you out. If he doesn't, well you now have a friend to help you find other guys.
2006-08-28 23:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants, and it sounds like he's just messing with your head. Forget the clown and move on.
2006-08-28 23:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HES PROBABLY NOT SHY. BUT HES SHY WHEN IT COMES TO GIRLS THAT HE LIKES . I DON'T KNOW.
2006-08-28 23:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋