im in high skool and i go wit this guy named davon. Me and him had sex the first time we went out and our parents found out and we got in trouble. Our parents said that we couldnt talk for a while. Well now it has been like 5 months and we started talkin again and now we go back out. i dont know how to tell my mom cuz she would be so disapointed in me. We've been goin out for like 2 weeks. normally he calls me and all that good stuff but today for sum reason he hasnt called and he wont reply to my text messages. I think hes messin with his x again. We had dat problem the first time we went out too. What should i do?? i need sum help!!! Your opinion would help alot!!!
2006-08-28 15:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by krissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any guy who thinks so little of you to have sex with you on the first date isn't worth your tears honey, there was no respect there. And when your parents got mad you should have respected them and stayed away from him for GOOD, now all that should haves out of the way, I know you're hurting, it was cruel of him not to give you the courtesy to call or text you back. If he messed around on you the first time, it won't be the last, and you have to remember that you are worth better than he is. Look at it like this, if you were talking to your best friend in the WHOLE world and she told you everything you just told us, what would you tell her to do? You would probably say Girl, he ain't worth it, he's a DOG, his love isn't worth your tears! Respect yourself and know you are worth a whole lot more than this player is willing to offer. You are SO young and you'll find someone who treats you right, and you will wonder why you ever stressed over this BOY! I hope you get to feeling better!
2006-08-28 16:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kat__hleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime a guy is messing with anyone other than you, you need to drop him. Realize you are worth more than this boy is treating you. The only person who can let them know you aren't just a piece of *** is by not putting it out for one, but not putting up with being toyed with. Your problem isn't with telling your mom it's with finding the inner strength to stand tall and proud and let these idiot's know you are worth something and you will not settle for left overs.
2006-08-28 23:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is start listening to your parents. The second thing is to be honest with them and let them know that you have disobeyed them
Start making your education a priority so that the time you spend worrying about him, spend it studying.
The next thing to do is to find out what will happen if you ever get pregnant.
2006-08-28 23:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why allow yourself to be used as a convenience by this guy?? Stop waiting and then resume things once he's done messin with his X, it just makes you look bad... Wheres your self respect?? Kick that boy to the curb, you can do better!
2006-08-28 22:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!! SERIOsly you owe it to yourself to leave this jerk. Try some time on your own for a while. There is life after highschool, i promise. O... and tell your mom or a school counselor or something if you really need to talk to someone. But if he's still messing around with his ex, it means that they aren't really broken up and he's cheating on both of you.
2006-08-28 22:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by happiness_in_a_smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense BUT MOVE ON! I just got out of a relationship like that expect im a virgin...um yea he messed with is ex and i gave him a black eye and broke up with him...if u are strong i would too
2006-08-28 23:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by my_emo_romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him youre to young to have to deal with that kind of stuff any ways life is better without all the drama find someone else
2006-08-28 23:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem with my now current b/f.i think you should just talk with him about it and then if it doesn't change dump his sorry ***,he's clearly not worth it...any guy that still fools with his x is a regurgitated *** bubble who deserves to have has nuts chopped off,but that's just my opinion
2006-08-28 23:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Football Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and get your self straight a little space,and then find someone new.
2006-08-28 22:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, you should give up on boys and focus more on your school. You write like your in grade school.
2006-08-28 23:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋