how do you go from calling a lady every hour or two a day, seeing her everyother day, spending at least 1 and sometimes two nights with her during the week and every weekend friday to sunday all day and night with her for over a month, to nothing no calls nothing. just a "it wasnt the right timing" or "I got scared"
2006-08-28 15:23:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate when people do that. But unfortunately, people dont break up well, and avoidance is the only way they can figure to end a relationship. SAs hard as it is now, be thankful you did not invest long years into it, and suddenly get hit with actions like these. Someone that truely cares for you is worth alot- and you will find that person. But it sounds like this wasnt the one, even though it may have seemed that way. Sorry your going through this right now.
2006-08-28 15:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, she's scared of commitment. If she can't even spend a little bit of time with you, you know she's not the person for you even if you love her. She's not too reliable. Don't go back to her too quickly if she asks you to forgive her later. Confront her and tell her this as a warning and that you'll break up with her. If she reacts, then stay with her and see if this pattern happens again. Good luck!
2006-08-28 22:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered the question yourself. Sometimes it's just not right between two people for any number of reasons and it takes time to discover it. Sometimes it IS bad timing, sometimes the person gets scared of intimacy, but usually that kind of comment is just an excuse for 'the thrill is gone for me and I want to move on'. It's not unusual for people to think this way who are very immature. It sounds like you have a very immature person on your hands and you're better off without him.
2006-08-28 22:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this before or after you gave up the cootchie? If you put out then he stopped calling then you got played and he got all he was after. Hope you used protection.
Now if you hadn't put out, consider it a learning experience and move on he needs some growing up.
2006-08-28 22:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your question ? Man, she's spending time with someone else.Quit calling HER...
2006-08-28 22:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by D Grass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you over did it.....smothered her and would not take the hint. That would make me run away for sure. Back off, pal........good for her!
2006-08-28 22:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it shes only a women
2006-08-28 22:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her where to go if she is going to be like that and treat you that way you deserve better.
2006-08-28 22:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was put off by your neediness. She would have liked you more if you'd had your own life
2006-08-28 22:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Xanther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...see a psychologist sounds like you were a bit obsessive there.
2006-08-28 22:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋