Sex question... Its not a joke.?

Question

My BF and I would like to try anal, but I am sooo scared of the pain. Any ideas on how to make it easier or any positions that will help with the inital pain.

Answer 1

if ur really turned on after alittle sex dont lubricate too much cuz it will go in too fast let him wet it with his spit, relax do not fight it or your mucles will be to tight ,then u take control of puttin it in and go slow once u get passed the first part of discompfort and get it in ur straight and the best sex u ever had and the best for orgasm you should have one right away
ive been wit my bffor 14 yrs since i was 15 now im 28 and sometimes it works and sometimes it dont but when its great its great so dont give up if the first time hurts trust me i know lots of gurlz who said NEVER and now its only when it works and they love it when it does i fean for it sometimes cuz it is so much greater than regular sex atleast me and everyone i know,
good luck i hope its enjoyable for you and him cuz my bf goes belistic for the thought of it going in there.................

Answer 2

The main way to avoid pain during anal sex is to use plenty of lubricant (like K-Y jelly) and to do it VERY slowly and carefully until you feel comfortable with it. Eventually you'll find that it doesnt really hurt much at all and instead feels good. MAKE SURE HE USES A CONDOM!!!! If he won't, forget the whole thing.

Answer 3

Okay honestly some people can handle it and some can't, so practice! Always have lube and/or condoms go slow and be careful. You might even want to have him finger your A** first to get the process started, it helps to teach you to relax cause that's important, don't tense up and try to enjoy it!!!

Answer 4

Oh lord, anal is very very painful. My boyfriend and I have tried it several times and I always have to stop cause it hurts so much. But my friend told me it wouldnt hurt so much if you got some lube and put it on his penis. Also remember to relax because when your tense your b.utthole gets tighter making it harder to enter. good luck.

Answer 5

It will hurt the first time trust just make sure you use a lot of lubricant Vaseline is a good choice but you have to be relaxed or it will hurt more Good Luck!!

Answer 6

Well.... Stall him a while, play with smaller toys to get use to it, and use a lot of KY Jelly. You should also research those health risks involved in that before doing it too. Know what your getting yourself into. A lot of people like it, but that doesnt change the fact that its potentially fatal, and can cause other issues.

Answer 7

Use lots of KY and try it on your back. If he goes slowly and you stay relaxed you should be OK. It may feel uncomfortable at first, like the first time you had sex, but it will get better. We use a vibrator so I get to have an orgasm too.

Answer 8

First relax, then lube up a bit for the first time, enter slowly the muscle will loosen then once adjusted you can screw like the wind!

Answer 9

umm my responce to this would be that you have to work the musel and take your time. and you deffinatly have to use alot of lube in this situation, otherwise it will hurt , it will hurt no matter what but, working it out and using alot of lube can help, aslo the ogasim is outof this world, if you do it right .good luck

Answer 10

take your time!! make sure he works you for a long time with his fingers. lots of lube and then put it in verry verrrrry slowly. if it hurts have him pull out and wait a few mintutes before trying again. and try to push down (like you are trying to have a bowel movement) and if that fails come see me and I will try to help :)