i have this x-bf which i am in love with and who i have loved like forever but i also have this friend which tonite while me and him was talk out of no where asked me out i didnt even no he liked me tell tonite well atleast not like that anyways he did and altho i love my x i told my friend yes i feel like im stuck now cause cause i dont no what to do so someone anyone give me your advice
2006-08-28 15:19:58 · 13 answers · asked by rudy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
IF YOU FEEL STUCK DONT DO IT. TELL YOUR FRIEND YOU JUST ARENT READY AND YOU WILL LET THEM KNOW WHEN YOU ARE. TELL YOUR FRIEND YOU DONT WANT TO RUSH AND YOU FEEL IT'S TO SOON. YOU DIDNT MEAN TO HURT THEM AND YOU VALUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IF THIS PERSON IS YOUR FRIEND THEY WILL UNDERSTAND. YOU HAVE TO DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU EVEN IF THAT MEANS SOMEONE GETS HURT ALONG THE WAY. THIS IS YOUR LIFE NOONE ELSE'S AND YOU SHOULD DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT. HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR YOU.
2006-08-28 15:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by bigmommanova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no point hanging on to your ex, since he's your ex. You broke up for a reason despite the feelings of love you still have. Go out with the new guy, but try and give him a fighting chance.
2006-08-28 15:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Advice: Please use punctuation. It will make your posts SO much easier to read and understand.
Advice: Your ex is an "ex" for a reason. Give yourself closure and move on.
Advice. Don't feel stuck...go out and allow yourself to have a fabulous time! Don't waste time sitting around hoping for something that's over...move forward and make a happy life for yourself!
2006-08-28 15:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the guy who asked you out go out with him. Don't put your life on hold waiting around for some guy who may never want to be with you again. Move on. You are free to mingle!
2006-08-28 15:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a chance. Your EX is your EX for a reason.
2006-08-28 15:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go out with him tonight, and see what happens. afterwords if you dont feel it is right then tell him you dont want to jepordize your relationship as friends by going farther you know, if you really love someone they will wait while you explore all avenues of life, your young i can see so just dont devote your life to someone who wont reciprocate your love, try all avenues before you choose your path. =) good luck to you!
2006-08-28 15:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by burningmanluver 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why is your ex- b/f your ex! Is it not clear to you? You can spend your life wondering what might have been between you and your ex, or you can spend you life knowing what is between you and someone who cares for you.... In the end its your call.....
2006-08-28 15:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use punctuation and Capitals. Paragraphs would be nice. I'll be damned if I am going to torture my eyes trying to read something like that.
That's my advice.
2006-08-28 15:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by cjh1221 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over your ex, and stay away from dating friends, it only ends in bad blood.
2006-08-28 15:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just say to ur friend that u like ur ex and talk it out ur feelings may change and that if he really likes u he will wait until mu r ready
2006-08-28 15:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋