I happen to know a woman who used to be a very good freind of mine. She finds her husband to be impotent after marriage.She was desperate to have a family,so she gets herself pregnant by some freind of hers, and she does not inform her freind nor does her husband know about it. But in the long run,about five years later ,in a fit of rage tells her husband that the boy they had was not his son. Strangely he is quiet tolerant about it. My question is, was this the way to go about the problem? Why is her husband so tolerant about it.( She is not very rich.)
2006-08-28 15:11:27 · 18 answers · asked by babla_cal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-28 15:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend's husband is tolerant because he is a nice man and has no choice. Your ex friend is the lowest form of trash there is, she is shallow, selfish, irresponsible and stupid. Your friend did not think about her man, nor did she think about the welfare of her child she only thought of her self.
What she should have done was too think about her man's impotence and help him overcome that problem first, then she could have had a child with him normally. Women like your friend just hurt people and cause heart break, she does not deserve to have children.
2006-08-28 16:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is gonna leave you when you are with his child then I am sorry but he isn't worth your time. Maybe he was just overreacting that day. But you need to tell him as hard as it might be for you. My husband was the same when I had to tell him I was pregnant again but remember you didn't do it on your own. lol He was a bit upset at first but now he is excited and always rubbing my belly and talking about names for her. Communication is key in marriage and I am learning that the hard way. Its best to be honest and just let him know that no birth control method is 100% for everyone. If he is a good man he will come around and love you all the same. Good luck.
2016-03-17 03:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the fact that he is an impotent is true and u didn't concoct it just on the spur of the moment then i think u answered your own question - he is tolerant because he is an impotent. he will never find any other woman to live with. so he is comfortable with what he's got. she might even start screwing everything that moves in front of his eyes he won't say anything. because he has no rights to complain
2006-08-28 18:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-16 07:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it was the right way to go about it. She could have tried IVF or even adopted. I think that maybe her husband is so tolerant because he loves this child as if it were his own. He also knows that he couldn't give her the chid that she so desperatly wanted.
2006-08-28 15:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 07:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is...why would she say anything? and further more...why would she only find out after marriage that her husband is impotent? part of a marital union is the anticipation of having kids....if she found out he was impotent after marriage...she should have sued him for divorce on the grounds that he couldn't keep "up" his end of the contract.....having kids. I'm sure it would be deception..or something like that.
2006-08-28 19:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by canada grl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they could have adopted or used fertility treatment or similar. If he knew he was impotent then he must have guessed the child wasn't his but if he wants kids maybe he just accepted it.
2006-08-28 15:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it was the way to go about it. Maybe the husband was tolerant because he knew she really wanted kids and so he understood why she did what she did. Plus if he knew he couldn't consive he probably already knew it wasn't his kid?
2006-08-28 15:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was the way to go b/c she used people. She should have discussed it with her husband first then her prospective sperm donor and spouse. Not good at all....She could have went to a sperm bank and wouldn't have hurt the bio. father and his spouse. Which will be terrible with they find out.
2006-08-28 15:15:27 · answer #11 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋