what are your thoughts about this... If your girlfriend told you that she never had a relationship before, and this was her first relationship.....i am 17 yrs old and i recently told my now ex boyfriend that i never had a relationship before him and he replied "Oh.." and didnt say anything after that. it made me feel like okay he thinks i am a loser..tell me honestly what would u think if someone at ur age told you that? i am curious. thank you for ur time.
2006-08-28 14:54:45 · 16 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not the loser he is it shouldn't matter about if you had a relationship or not before him and i see you called him ex and that's the way it should be go find someone who will like you for who you are. Now if someone told me at my age i would say they are lying or been living under a rock. Take Care.
2006-08-28 15:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser. I personal would think that you need time and would go slow. I am 39 though and even if a 40 year old women told me that I would not think of her as a loser. You would be surprised just how many women and men have not had a relationship. Take your time, there is no hurry
2006-08-28 22:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Doug favors universal insurance! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That to me is a key sign that we need to take it slow into this relationship. Im 26 though, so if someone my age told me that, I'd probably laugh to myself thinking something weird about her. At 17 though, its a little different. I'd have to respect that, or find someone else. If he broke up with you because of that though, that typically means he thought it would be easy to get in your pants, and you just told him otherwise so its time to bail.
2006-08-28 21:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie, but if you want to know what he thought when you told him that, you must ask HIM. I bet your impression was off, though. I'd think he would be tremendously honored to be your first love. If he thought that made you a loser somehow, then he just doesn't know a good thing when he sees it.
2006-08-28 22:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. you cant just say a generalized answer, because all people are different. im a guy, 17, and i have never been in a serious relationship. ive dated while i was younger, but thats different. maybe he was expecting you to be "expeirenced" or something. maybe it doesnt make a difference to him, and thats all he said. if someone told me that, it would be just fine. i might actually prefer a girl that wasnt because i wouldnt feel inadaquate. but to me, it wouldnt make a difference.
2006-08-28 22:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by jared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think, that my girl that told me that might be nervous of doing something wrong be with her making what she expects of how relationships should work.
2006-08-28 21:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by el_carliosmx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Oh"... You're not a loser, if I am your boyfriend and you ask me this meaning that you're not a loser. In fact, you've made the best decision in life picking me! That'd be my answer.
2006-08-28 21:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Titan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a looser. But worried that you will fall head over heals for him.....I think he is a bit scared of that....maybe
2006-08-28 22:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds pretty mean of him not to acknowledge that you meant something to him when you two were dating.
2006-08-28 22:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by benjamin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he likes you, he wont care whether its your 1st or 100th relationship.
2006-08-28 21:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by badotisthecat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋