My 13 year old has been pickon ever since grad 2. Last year I had to take her out of school it was that bad. I put her in a new school this I hope someone can help me make her fell better about this situation.
2006-08-28 14:50:55 · 13 answers · asked by paula g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
find a good school. help her make friends. im also 13 and have been piked on since 3rd grade. now in 8th grade, i am surrounded by so many friends if someone says something mean, the suddenly turn in to a geek and is put down the rest of the year.
2006-08-28 14:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she is being picked on and try and help her. You really didn't give enough information. I would try and really build her ego up and let her know how much you love her and that there are just some jerks out there, emphasize her strong points and get her involved in some social groups that she would enjoy e.g. sports, music, painting, singing, art, karate. Anything she shows interest in, hopefully she will get some good friends and improve her confidence in a social setting. God Bless her, kids can really be cruel!
2006-08-29 00:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a small kid so iv been picked on quiet alot im always small for my age im in 9th grade and im 4 foot 9in. it sucks but you just got to tell her to stand up for here self and write a note to a teacher on a pices of papper that she turns in thats what i did. or if it is that serious get the law involved after all this is a free country she should have the right to go to school with out a problem and learn like every body else. i hope i helped you i know you will tell your daughter the right thing to do.
2006-08-28 21:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by 1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a little more clear.
WHY was she being picked on anyway?
tell her to always look on the positive things in life and never the negative.she shouldn't listen to what everyone says.tell her she shouldn't ever let the negativity of others get into her cuz only she knows who she is inside out and no one else.hope I help a little bit at least.
2006-08-28 21:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ask this girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard coming from a parent. Its like your "job" to make her feel better. What she needs is an outside party that has been there, and understand what she's going through. If you want, Id be more than happy to talk to her on yahoo IM, and to clear any crazy alligations, please feel free to observe the conversation.
2006-08-28 21:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find your daughter a friend then that friend can help her having more friends makes that bully feel out numbered those people you pick on her or he are probley having problems on the own good luck to both of you
2006-08-28 21:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is being picked on she is obviosuly being targeted for a reason. make sure she feels comfortable in the clothes you buy her and the classes she is taking. ets.... tell her it is ok to stand up for herself. role play. have her do something that would increase her confidence...rock climbing or something that would make her feel like she accomplished something difficult.....take her to a psychiatrist and he could help her.
2006-08-28 22:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by crystalfaria11306 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it continues to be bad, you may want to think about homeschooling. Such bullying at school can really ruin a child's self worth. Also please do speak to the principal about this matter. This has got to stop!!
2006-08-28 21:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this site for some tips and useful information,
http://stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/index.asp?area=main
Good Luck.
Have fun but be safe.
2006-08-28 21:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the teacher
or some than
tell the princle
or even the po-po
2006-08-28 21:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋