2006-08-28 14:40:27 · 10 answers · asked by pazaway_-girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple-equation . All u really need do is to ask your-self (in all sincerity)"how do you feel each & everytime you either suspect or know that your boyfriend has lied to you" ?
And do be honest ; is it "hurt & unhappiness" that you basically feel?? If so, then multiply that by whatever amount of years you might dream or desire to spend with this so-called boyfriend ... and, then ask yourself those few neccesary -questions ( is it really what you want/is it really the type relationship you even need /is he really even worth it )!??
Perhaps at some point you could even take the chance of being very open with him and let him know how u've been feeling. After having had such heartly talk...should the situation persist; then perhaps time for you to excercise other options?
Also let me say, oftentimes & more than not...the very best "answers" are found deep within one-self, if only you are truly willing to confront them . In short ; to thy own-self be true. Even when others (including a lover.).. falls short of such respect !
Wish you luck with your decision -making !
2006-08-28 14:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by anthony J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what was he not telling the truth about? But usually if you're asking such a question it must be something at least semi-serious. I would have to say unfortunately, you already know the answer. You are more than likely just trying to get confirmation on what you probably should do. If its that big of an issue then leave him. I say that because you will always have the thought of him being a liar floating around if not.
2006-08-28 16:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by nyarka15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him so many questions until he tells you the truth. Trust is a vital key to every relationship. If he's lying to you constantly, you're lacking a good and complete relationship. The thing to get your boyfriend to come out and say it if you have proof/evidence to back up your statement. You need to shove it in your boyfriend face that you know he's lying. You have to play the guilt trip on him. Later on he'll admit it.
2006-08-28 14:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Christine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not telling hte truth hes lying to you....so therefor i would dump his butt if he doesnt admit it or come clean.....one things i cant stand is a liar. lying just gets you into more lies that you cant get out of. obviously he has something to hide or he is a compulsive liar and doesnt even know when he lies because he lies so much.
2006-08-28 14:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him what I know and see how he reacts. I'd ask him to explain the discrepancy in what I know with what he tells me. I'd explain that I don't want to loose trust.
2006-08-28 14:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't kiss you before he leaves to go somewhere then he don't like you. or if you ask him where he going and he just looks around and say something he's lying
2006-08-28 14:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know hes not? How do I know your not the one making him look like a bad guy?
In this world of lies, nothing is fact.
2006-08-28 14:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb
2006-08-28 14:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would lose my trust in him and depending on what he was lying about i would leave him
2006-08-28 14:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would be history...........
2006-08-28 14:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋