...while getting a hooker will be less of a headache and cheaper?
Aren't men paying for sex anyway and don't women know that? The girls that say no sex before three dates; you're saying, "I'll have sex with you after you spend a certain amount on me."
Don't be insulted by this question; it's not meant to be. It's just the way that us guys think of most dates and dating in general and yes, your sweet boyfriend/husband say's the same thing when he's with his friends.
2006-08-28 14:40:06 · 11 answers · asked by winger44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. You heard the hype, the spin, the denials. the truth is, sex is a commodity bought, bartered and sold. One of the posters sais somethig about a woman waitng 3 days not to look easy. Like remembering 5 big words to elude people into thinking you can read. Itis a mask. The truth is women want ther booty call as much as the men, they just don't want to seem as shallow about it. they want to play in the mud puddles but don't want to seem like a nasty tom boy. Some women truly give it up for nothing or next to nothing. We call them w****s. And no woman want to be seen as one of those so they play the romance angle. If he says those magic bed room enterance words of "I love you" she can delude herself into thinking there is emotion there and not just gratuitous sex, therefor, making her better than the common w****. If hookers were legal a lot of women who are seeing action by proxie now would be sitting at home with rubber toys. That is the real. But people want to hate the game , and ignore the truth. Like water, it takes the path of least resistance. If a guy just want sex and he does not look like a Calvin Klein pretty boy model who can have 13 gals bashing themselves silly to have a booty call with him. Even though he may have the personality of standing tap water. And all he had to do is go to a parlor, pick out a hot girl from a line up. get his brains boinked out and go. No calls tomorrow. No flowers. No dinner dates. He would do it. The only reason for getting a relationship is if he wanted to get it regular for free.
2006-09-04 17:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an idiotic idea...much less why any guy would think it was 'kewl' to admit to buying sex...yeah, that makes y'all sound manly and desirable... *rolls eyes*
One: dating isn't sex...sex is sex...so .a guy that just wants sex can find it easily enough (and not from a prostitute) if he has half a brain and can at least fake some personality...he needn't waste a woman's time by dating her if all he really wants is in her panties...
No, men aren't paying for sex when they date women...but if they chooose to look at it that way that's their thing. If it makes 'em feel good to think they're paying for sex I'd say it's a sign of a deceitful guy, because the woman is likely enjoying spending time with someone she hopes to get to know better...if the only reason he's asking her out is so he can get laid then then he's a jerk if he wasn't up front with her about it...and lots of times the guy doesn't get sex anyway...there are plenty of women that don't feel the need to spread their legs immediately for any guy who smiles at them...
Guys with your attitude should definitely go for the hookers...you'd be doing a LOT of us chicks a favor...
2006-08-28 14:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that way, then get a hooker. Believe it or not, some men actually want to have a connection with a woman. It isn't about spending money, its about spending time. Questions like this separate the boys from the Men.
2006-09-05 06:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give the impression by your question that the only reason you date is for sex, I don't get it. There are other reasons, when ever I am "dating" a man and I realize that is his main agenda you can bet I know it and he will pay if I decide to have sex with him. I do not nor have I ever had a rule about when it is OK to give it up it is when I want to, not when I am obligated. I honestly think a lot of this confusion would be eliminated if prostitution were legal.
2006-08-28 14:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by malraene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting a hooker might be cheaper, but who doesn't want a sweetheart to come home to? In the long run, you may spend more money on dates, but the rewards you'll gain from spending your time and energy on a lady far outweigh the actual monetary cost. And rest assured that it is your time and energy we're after, and not your money. I had sex with my fiance on the third date, but not as a rule, and not because he'd spent money on me. In fact, both our second and third dates were free. It's not about seeing what your finances are like, it's about getting to know you.
2006-08-28 14:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The no sex before three dates is only to make the girl feel like she's not being easy or a slut. It has nothing to do with at man spending money on them.
2006-08-28 14:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, some guys just want their OWN woman, not one thats banging tom dick n harry.
the sex rule applies with me but not the 3 date thing i've never heard that before...it could be a week or 10 weeks, depends how right we feel 2gether...or till we cant wait no longer...its better that way...i think ur message means that men cant have no love 4 a woman...thats simply not true, u just think like the majority not the minority...lots of men r the same...and it depends on the TYPE of girl too...a girl has to come correctly to a man to show him her worth...
2006-08-28 14:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if sex is the only thing that you are after then a hooker is ideal, however if you are looking for something meaningful then dating is worth it.
2006-09-04 07:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy I will not deny that sex is great. However, I'm not sure by your post that you put any value in love.
2006-08-28 14:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by someavgguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some useful tips here.
2006-08-29 20:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋