what first attracts a guy to a girl? how can u improve ur chances at having the guy u like be attrached 2 u?
2006-08-28 14:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, you want to know what attracts me?
Manners- If I open a door for you I better get a f**kin thank you
Intellect- If a girl doesnt have something to talk about, then I dont want to hear from her
Looks- If you dress like a slut than forget it, I want a girl who dresses decently and is fairly cute. Im not lookin for a Jessica alba but you gotta be reasonable.
Kindness- No controlling, bossy, bitchy girls. be nice
just remember MILK
2006-08-28 14:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be who you are, and dress the way you normally would. If you attract a guy based on physical attraction, and you act like something your not then you will not like the end. I had to learn that the hard way. Talk to him and in conversation find out what he likes and what he does not like, and then zero in on what you and he is compatible on. Just be who you are and hopefully he will be who he is, and if the chemistry is there, it will happen. Sex is not a way to get a guy, remember be who you are and have respect for him and most important, respect yourself.
2006-08-28 21:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Doug favors universal insurance! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys alwasy want something or someone they can't have. If they know they can have it it's not interesting to them anymore.
This is why people shouldn' t get marrried.
Smile show some skin. Guys get turned on by anyone showing some legs or boobs. It's a lot easier for a guy to get turned on thatn for a girl.
and for long term they want someone with a nice personality.
2006-08-28 21:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it is the physical appearance initially. Then it is confidence, brains, then personality in that order. If you really want him attached, just get all the said above in order. In addition treat him nice, don't flirt with other men, encourage him in everything, and build up his self esteem by praising him and his efforts often. Remind him what a great bf/husband he is.
2006-08-28 21:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best chance to attract the right man for you is to be yourself.
2006-08-28 21:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad to say its either boobs or butt...You can also get a guy by having a nice conversations and throw in some attractive lines.
2006-08-28 21:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Snowboarder from Utah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first attracts us?
one of those 3
pretty face
nice tit
nice leg
2006-08-28 21:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by tenstrike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt wink show some cleavage smile
2006-08-28 21:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is all about the way you look and your attitude at first and they get to know you
2006-08-28 22:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by sweet al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your beauty
2006-08-28 21:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋