Well lets see, About 3 days ago. I heard from a friends boyfriend that he was in DH with my New boyfriend. I thought it was just something to get us apart. Because people didn't want us together. We are two different types of people. Even my cousin told me that he(My boyfriend) rapied her best friend. and that he (My Boyfriend)had charges brought up against, and when I would ask him about it. He first lied to me and told me he went to DH for fighting <
2006-08-28
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2006-08-28 14:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by ndanylevich01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not worried, then why are you here asking our advise? Honey, you ARE worried. And you have a reason to be.
Any violent man, that can not first accept that he is violent, and then works hard to change that, will always be violent. He doesn't think he has a problem "he was wrongfully accused" you said. He is not accepting that he was in the wrong. Therefore he will do this again.
It is no fun being raped. Even by a boyfriend. Maybe even ESPECIALLY by a boyfriend.
Run while you can. This man will not change. And you are bound to be lined up as one of his victims sooner or later.
2006-08-28 14:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can change, but why wouldn't he want to talk about it then say he was wrongfully accused? That doesn't make sense to me. If I knew I was wrongfully accused of something I wouldn't hesitate to tell my girlfriend about it. There is probably something else he isn't telling you. Things like that need to be talked about in a relationship because your partner deserves to know. I think if there is a possibility that he did it, maybe you should rethink the relationship. You'll make the best decision for yourself, but be careful in what you decide. There are still many people out there who you could potentially be with.
2006-08-28 14:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The amount of times a guy is accused of rape, and the number of rapes that are actually committed are Sooooo different. Just because some chick told some one that she was raped so her repuation didn't go down hill, or a popularity boost. Don't believe everything you hear, just be on your guard for the possibilities.
2006-08-28 14:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun excuse me but love is blind. Or so i've heard. But this is laying it out on the line. You know he did this and you're gonna forgive him and make nice...Please don't be that dense.
If he's a rapist he's gonna do it again. And maybe the next time it'll be you or god forbid one day your children.
It doesnt seemed he fessed up all on his own. Doesn't sound like he faced what he did and moved on. As long as he's making excuses and not trying to stop he'll be a danger.
Oh hell if it was me the moment i doubted i'd be gone. I wouldn't bother with it anymore. Life is too precious to risk endangering yourself around a convicted rapist. Please wake up.
2006-08-28 14:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, there are instances where people are accused falsely. But, from what I can tell there are 2 people accusing him of rape? I really think you need to back off him let the case be tried and take it from there. He may not be guilty, but how are you going to feel if he is?
2006-08-28 14:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he you need to get furthur information if he capable of rape why would u want him i hope u care more about yourself then to be with a rapist thats if he really did it.ask the girl are seek info some how so was he charged are were they droped weigh your options but be safe and be careful.
2006-08-28 14:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this yet another " Arab Spring " united states of america,being Sprung ? Their Freedoms being shown as extra,enforcement of Islamic Barbarity ? pretend Spring,on to wintry climate ? Who'd have concept ? Me !
2016-12-05 20:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by harth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Innocent until proven guilty on the court of law.
2006-08-28 14:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by fireman4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of decent men out there, go find another one.
2006-08-28 15:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by got_shots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. You don't need him lying to you about anything. If he can't be honest with you, he's going to hurt you worse later.
2006-08-28 14:33:02 · answer #11 · answered by coolmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋