ok my bf and i are now comfortable in our relationship and lately i've noticed he has stopped saying "I love you". Is that a sign he doesn't feel it anymore or just thinks i already know. because although i do know...i still wanna hear it (is thatwron of me??) Another thing he stopped doing is PDA (not the tacky stuff)....he used to not care if ppl were watching and now i'm lucky if he holds my hand in front of others...what does it mean??
2006-08-28 14:03:45 · 21 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he may not love you anymore. you might want to end this relationship even if you are still in love with him.
2006-08-28 14:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him and say EXACTLY what you put in the above question. He either (a) has changed feelings about your relationship or (b) doesn't realize what he's doing (which isn't surprising out of a man). You are looking for answers in the wrong place. Don't ask the public, go to the source. If he's worth your while, you should be able to talk to him about any of your feelings at any time. It isn't wrong of you to want to hear it from him regularly. And if he really loves you, he'll make sure that you hear it as often as you need to (no matter how corny it may seem to him or anyone else).
2006-08-28 21:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by longhairchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should still tell you he loves you even if you are 100 yrs. old. However, the PDA, I hate that! I always feel those who do that in public are doing it for attention and are really not doing anything in private. My man doesn't even hold my hand in public but, he tells me he loves me and I know he does.
2006-08-28 21:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would confront the situation head on. If he seems to be pulling away then he just might be, even though that might not be what you want to hear. Or he does just not feel he needs to say it to feel it, but if you want to hear it then you should tell him it's important to you. If he still isn't willing to compromise then say bye bye....Also if he's not so lovey dovey around people and friends then it seems he's not to into you, cause if he was he'd be all over you all the time 24/7!!! Just my opinion though!
2006-08-28 21:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by wldsxychild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't mean he doesn't love u it can be that he does but he knows that u already know but as long as u don't break up with him and he still makes love to u then it is going smoothly.
This could be because deep down inside he may feel shy to tell u but instead he shows it with emotions.
2006-08-28 21:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, guys don't tend to say "I love you" as much as girls... even though we expect it of them. It could just mean he assumes you know already. Also, there's a point in every relationship where he no longer feels it's necessary to be all touchy-feely in public- he's just so comfortable in the relationship that he doesn't need to let every other guy in the room know that you're his girl- he knows you won't stray.
If you have doubts though, you should ask him yourself though. If you're truly in a loving relationship, you should be able to ask these things.
2006-08-28 21:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Tell him that you still like hearing him say "I love you"....and tell him you love it when he holds your hand in public. Communication is key!
2006-08-28 21:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he stops saying i love you, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, you have to see through his actions and see if he really does love you, sometimes saying i love you and don't act it out it doesn't mean anything. being in love isn't just to hear the 3 words, they may be sweet, but actions speak louder than words.
2006-08-28 21:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is leaving you in his heart and mind. Move on and find a new BF who will be into you.
2006-08-28 21:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he may have lost the "spark"... tell him how u are feeling and ask him how he is feeling... find out what is really going on... the only way u will find out is if u ask him... Good luck :)
2006-08-28 21:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋