2006-08-28 14:00:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you mean 'how do you know if your in love', then the best answer I can give you is, you just feel it. It is stronger than any feeling you will have felt towards someone, and you won't feel as strongly to impress them, and you'll care for their safety and happiness. If you are really in love, then you'll know. :) Noone else can tell you
2006-08-28 14:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Princess J9 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love does not require rational, intellectual thought. In other words, you don't need a logical reason; however, you should know intuitively. Intuition does not require calculated thoughts: in other words, you should know immediately--without even thinking about it--whether or not you are in love.
Think about one of your favorite songs, and think about the first time you ever heard it (if you can). How long did it take for you to realize that it was a good song? If it was truly good, it should have taken about (3) seconds, especially if you happened to catch the song in the middle of the chorus or a really good part. Did you come up with a bunch of reasons as to why you liked the song in those (3) seconds? No! You did not have time to. You just knew the song was good--immediately.
If it takes you more than (30) seconds to realize you like a song, you are a person who does not know what you want in life. You do not know yourself, and you do not know what you truly desire. If you do not know yourself, you are lost, and I do not believe you can trust your intuition.
The reverse is not true. For example, you can come up with a bunch of reasons as to why a bad song is bad. But, it's hard to come up with a bunch of reasons as to why a good song is good . . . you just know. Similarly, you don't need to know if you're in love--you just "know."
If you've been in a relationship with a person for a long time, and you are wondering whether or not you're in love with the person, just think back to the first time you met that person. Then . . . you'll know. Many couples "grow" to love each other if they've been around each other long enough (though they may not have liked each other very much when they first met), and many wonderful marriages happen this way. If this is the type of relationship you want, that is fine; however, you cannot find a soulmate this way. Unconditional love begins the first moment you meet that person--within (3) seconds. Yes, this is "crazy" and irrational, but the greatest things in life are beyond reason. No scientist--a logical, rational person--can tell you the exact reason why "One" by U2 is a good song. No scientist can tell you the exact definition of "beauty." No one can explain whether or not you are in love. If you do not know, start by knowing yourself.
2006-08-28 21:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ecesis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really easy to answer
When your on the phone with them late at night and they hang up you miss them already when it was just two minutes ago
You read their texts over and over again...
You walk really slow when you're with them
You feel shy whenever you're with them...
When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster
You smile when you hear their voice...
When you look at them, you can't see the other people around
you... all you see is him/her...
You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them
They become ALL you think about...
You get high just from their scent...
You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about them...
You would do anything for them...
While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.....
2006-08-28 21:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will just know... i no that every1 says this... but if u have to think about whether u love the person or not... you are not in love... sum say that its when u think about the other person more than yourself... and sumtimes that is the case... but honestly when u are in love u will no it! Good luck and hope that helps :)
2006-08-28 21:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean 'how do you know if yr inlove'? you will know when yr inlove the feeling is so different, you wont be able to discribe it. read more on love and relationships that will help on this site
2006-08-28 21:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is waste of time you only gain pain & solutude from it & it'll make you always sad & angry like i am
2006-08-28 21:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Yagami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do I do what if I'm in love?
2006-08-28 21:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are asking " how do you feel if you are in love " ?
feel needed , feel wanted. Self-esteem will be high .
2006-08-28 21:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you get forgetful like you just did in forgetting to put the word KNOW IN YOUR QUESTION....no sah u just know with all the good feelings you have and only want to be with that person.
2006-08-28 21:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do i what well i'm trying to gain the courage to tell a nice guy who's not goth or dark in any way what so ever that i love him.............
2006-08-28 21:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by N² 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋