I’m dating this guy and I feel almost positive that he’s the one for me. We’ve already told each other we love each other and he shows it and I know I do. I try to do everything for him because I really care for him but I get shy around him when we’re just sitting and talking together I start stuttering and I feel stupid. I just can’t make sense with my words and I just stare at him a lot and smile. I can boogie board with him or do some other activity and talk freely but when we’re alone holding each other. I just get all emotional and keep my feelings inside so I don’t start balling. He just seems so perfect though like he knows every emotion I feel and says and does everything at the right moments. I can’t get over the stuttering and I don’t know what to do. I’ve never been this nervous with anyone before and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want him to think I’m dumb
2006-08-28 14:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh boy this is very common when u find someone u totally click with, when we find the person who makes us so happy sometimes we are so scared to lose them we dont know what to say, we get nervous especially when were alone because all their attention is on u, u dont want to say something stupid but u also dont want to say your true deep feelings because it might scare them off, i think it takes time to be comfortable with someone when you are alone, but dont worry you will get over that and by the sounds of it u have a very special relationship, hold onto it and cherish it and whatever come out of it is a bonus
2006-08-28 14:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by brandy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you and you really think that he is the one for you then you shouldn't be embarrassed by your stuttering because he love you for you are.
Besides, the stuttering is usually because you are nervous. Just give it time, I'm sure the stuttering will pass.
2006-08-28 14:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it kinda sounds like you are doughting that you like him. Just tell him how you feel and maybe he will make you feel more confortable around him and you 2 could take it slow for a little while it always worked for me. What could you lose? Just give it a shot. It sounds like you 2 really like each other so he should understand.
2006-08-28 14:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by mac_lefty_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to be your self !
there is nothing to worry about !
i know that shyness is a thing you cant control but you can get used to the guy, the more you get used to him the more your free with him.
may be he is a little shy too and that's what makes you a little too nerves, but if you know that he loves you just let your self go with him and don't worry about it
2006-08-28 14:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, "Honey, I love you so much. See what you do to me? I can't even speak right when I'm with you". Then kiss him. You will settle down eventually. I love being in love, don't you?
2006-08-28 14:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww! you still get nerveous around him?.. that means you really like him!..dont worry about the studdering and all that cause as long as you do that the longer you'll enjoy ya'lls relationship!..it will eventualuuy go away though!..but you'll have it to look bakk on!
..so cute!
good luck!
2006-08-28 14:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by sexii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP worrying if you both are in love then he will understand why you are like that, just enjoy each others company, you will soon feel cosy, & relaxed,
2006-08-28 14:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Methinks you are nervous around him since you obviously have deeper feelings for him as he does with you.....
You are in love my dear....Do you want to let him get away?
2006-08-28 14:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by e_guanajuato 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you feel soooooooooooo shy when you are alone and dont feel so dump i wish that you live happily ever after with him. congratulations
2006-08-28 14:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Meme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you, the fact that you're nervous like that might possibly be flattering to him. Trust me he doesn't and won't think you're stupid.
2006-08-28 14:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋