Well say you lay together and hang out for hours. And you cuddle while watching movies. Then later on in the night you have sex..... Does the guy have feelings for you or is it just the sex? O and yea the cuddling was his idea.....lol
2006-08-28 13:53:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'd have to ask him. It sounds nice, anyway.
2006-08-28 13:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband did this with other girls before we were married, he did it just for the sex. I think that when guys like a girl, that shouldn't be the only time they have sex. So it really depends on the circumstance, does he call just to hang out from time to time without the sex? Does he ask you about your day? Does he seem genuinely interested? Does he share his personal life with you? Does he fall asleep after the sex? Sure cuddling can happen before sex happens but after sex is when it counts.
2006-08-28 20:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you, it seems like it was more than sex. For the guy, I dont know, it is too hard to tell from your point of view. If you've already had sex, I figure that it is ok to ask him how he feels about you. If he turns tale and runs, avoids the question or changes the topic, he doesn't. If he has a real conversation with you, he at least cares about you. And if he tells you that yes, he feels for you, great.
2006-08-28 20:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not necessarily "feelings", not emotional any way, maybe Horny feelings, but not necessarily emotional. Men are much more physical and women are much more emotional. It's not uncommon for a man to "cuddle" his way closer to the woman until he hits the ultimate *spot*. Not to say that this particular guy doesnt have feelings, but to answer your question literally, NO. Sex does not = feelings.
2006-08-28 20:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by eternallegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the only person who can answer that. I personally always hope for the best it sounds he might have feelings for you since he wanted to cuddle. Or he could be playing you like a fiddle
2006-08-28 20:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by tracy26208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could go either way. He could be trying to get you in the sack. But then maybe he actually like you and wants to be with you. You know the guy better than us. Try getting inside him and see what he is all about. And how long have you two been seeing each other? Good luck.
2006-08-28 20:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww it sounds like feelings to me all that time and he ain't want sex intill later I don't even cuddle with my fiance no more like that but we love the hell out of each other
2006-08-28 20:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by REESE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personally i think he has feelings for you. I also think that every man would like to cuddle up and talk before just jumping up and having sex.
2006-08-28 20:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by ms.new booty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in most cases, they'll lay and cuddle and hang out (and whatever else they think they need to do) to ensure that they get sex later. don't fall for that BS
2006-08-28 20:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cuddling was an excuse to get into your pants , looks like it worked.
2006-08-28 20:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can have feelings and also just go for the sex on a particular occassion, as well. If you enjoyed yourself - be patient and the guy will let you know how deep his feelings are.
2006-08-28 20:58:43 · answer #11 · answered by Tammie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋