I was fat till puberty but now i'm not and people say i'm hot, so i'm gaining confidence. How should I try to get a girlfriend? I have only tried being a friend first but that didnt work since they then " value me too much as a friend"
2006-08-28 13:47:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would suggest just hanging out with girls for a while, and letting something develop from there. Trying to find a girlfriend or boyfriend usually doesnt work out so well because it is too contrived. Dont get too nervous about this, there is no "plan" to be on as far as dating goes. Just take things at your own pace. You are cool and hot and etc etc, just as you are.
2006-08-28 13:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself Kitten and the rest will come naturally. Be confident in yourself, but not too confident. And don't be afraid to talk to girls or afraid to endure rejection (we all are rejected at some point and time, no matter what we look like). Simply walk up to a single girl and say, "Hey, my name is So & So. What's yours?" If she acts like she is offended, oh well, they'll be another one in 2 seconds coming around the corner.
2006-08-28 13:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to girls. When you meet one that you "vibe" well with and the feelings seem mutual, ask her if you can call her, or ask her out for something casual and simple like for ice cream or a movie. Just be yourself and be honest, and don't just look for any old girlfriend, take your time and find one that will really be a great girlfriend for you to share all your firsts with.
2006-08-28 13:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, enjoy you time with buddies and sports and all that stuff that's so much fun at 15. Trust me you don't want to get into the girl relationships till your at least 18/19. Its just to much drama and communication.
2006-08-28 13:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and wait 4 the right one. I'm 16 and I just started dating like 2 months ago
2006-08-28 13:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang out with the guys...and the girls will follow...i mean your 15...its not like your the 40 year old virgin....invite a girl over for a movie she will get the picture.....
2006-08-28 13:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by baibeegurlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress it, it will come when it is time. I didn't have my first girl friend until I was 17 by choice. I have turned down alot of atractive girls. Find someone you can relate too.
2006-08-28 13:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were ur mom i'd tell u hell ur still too young. wait because when u get ur heart broken at such a young age sometimes teens have a hard time trying to handle that. since everyone usually goes through at least one heartache wait to date until ur a little older.trust
2006-08-28 13:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move. But its not like you're 24. You still have time. Dont be something that you're not, cuz eventually, the truth will surface, and you'll be in BIG trouble.
2006-08-28 13:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time,you will find the right one soon enough,just be yourself and always be honest. The one for you will happen all on it's own!
2006-08-28 13:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by spoiledsarah25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋