Are attractive slim females attracted to fat men?

Question

This the story my m8's set me up with his gf's m8 told her about me etc etc n now they wanna go on a double date thing is shes a minter n im abit fat do u think i should go ahead or am i just wastin my time??

rite ive decided to take most pplz advice n meet her but how can i play the cards rite im new to this whole dating thing any ideas appreciated

Answer 1

Okay, the answer to your question of whether or not attractive slim females are attracted to fat men, is possibly. Truth of the matter is, if a woman spends time and puts effort into her slim athletic build and looks she is probably looking for a man that takes care of himself as well, ie; a woman that enjoys going to the gym would prefer a man to share the same activities as her as opposed to a slob that sits on the couch all day. However, us females would prefer a bulky real man, over a thin toothpick. It all really depends on the woman, but overall a naturally thin, attractive woman, really just wants a man to love her. Now, there aren't alot of women who are attracted to VERY HEAVY men, I'm talking like over 500 lbs, but we like our teddy bears. And to answer your question about whether or not your wasting your time going on a date with an attractive slim girl, OF COURSE NOT! Why not go for it, do you have anything to lose? It's just a date, not commitment right? I say, GOOD LUCK, and HAVE FUN!

Answer 2

Women are generally more interested in a guy's personality. So if you're kind, a gentleman, and you make her laugh, you stand a chance...unless she is shallow which isn't worth your time. Seriously, would you really want to be with someone who is so concerned with her looks? Some women are also attracted to guys with money (unfortunately) so if you have money and you're a bit overweight, well, you stand a good chance too. Though you wouldn't want to be with someone like that either.

Answer 3

In general, yes I suppose that is. WHy? Well when you're overweight (male or female) your face and features tend to change because of your weight. Your face becomes bigger, and therefore less attractive (in some cases). Plus when your overweight, the female anatomry is less distinguished because you don't just have fat in all the right places (boobs, hips, butt, thighs) you have it in all places. But as you get older, people mature and tend to see past just looks.

Answer 4

Some slim women are attracted to fat men. Go, see how you feel about her, gauge how she feels about you, and take it from there. It can't hurt to meet the girl. Gotta take chances.

Answer 5

To be honest, women like guys that look good. BUT there is a loophole in their thinking, and that is how you present yourself. If you are the bigger guy, don't act like it -- be confident. Don't judge yourself, just worry about her having a good time.

Physical looks is only a fraction of the attraction. Most of the other parts is how you present yourself, and how you can use your body language.

Answer 6

This is very true...I dated a man who was bald and slightly over weight, when he and I would go out men use to hit on me in front of him. The other men thought that he was just my friend. However, I really had deep feelings for him and he broke my heart.

Answer 7

I'm not sure... but I dont think they are because you dont see it happen much - most of the time men get fat after marriage then their marriage goes to the pot because the wife is no longer attracted to him because he is fat and she is skinny (99.9% of the root of all divorces)

Answer 8

How fat are you. 20 lbs over weight, 50 lbs , 100 lbs , 200 lbs.
Yes some girls go wout with large mien.

Answer 9

Just get yourself a fat bint an you'll be in fine company!

Answer 10

Looks really aren't that important to a lot of people. Go for it. Good luck!