There's this girl that I used to go out with, but I screwed it up. Ever since, I've never stopped thinking about her. I love everything about her-she's smart, she's funny, she so outgoing, and not shy about anything, and gosh, she's so beautiful. But, she seems to only like a certain cliche of people, and that's not me. But, how can I get this amazing girl to like me again? I can't live without her.
Please don't be insensitive or give stupid answers.
2006-08-28 13:18:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't change who you are to get a girl to like you. If you're not the "cliche" of guy she likes, then you're just not the guy for her.
2006-08-28 13:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is you can't make a girl do anything. All you can do is be her friend in her time of need. Be there for her. Be caring. Do all that you can.
Oh and don't tell us all that about her. TELL HER. (thank gosh a guy thinks a girl is beautiful and not "hot". You're one in a million. haha) Oh but tell her VERY subtly.
Good Luck.
2006-08-28 20:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force people to like you.
You do not want her to like you because she has to - or is forced into it. She needs to like you for you. I suggest that you be honest and say that you like her....and would like to get to know her better. If she does not allow you in to her friends world there is nothing you can do. Not everyone gets what they want.
But if she allows you to share your life - you can show her that there is a reason to take another step and be a boyfriend if you mututally find reason to do so.
Lucky you are the male in the relationship and have an easier time asking women out or for dates.... if you were a woman - the risk is looking too forward or too agressive.
2006-08-28 20:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't 'make' someone like you or manufacture chemistry and feelings because you want to. unfortunately. the dating world would have far less complications if this were the case. you also did not elaborate on how you screwed up. ask her out. try to win her over by treating her well and with respect, and hopefully she will reciprocate. good luck to ya.
2006-08-28 20:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are sorry
If she didnt care about that
then she is a jerk
and personally i think nothing can top a reason for breaking up a friendship than the girl is mean
2006-08-28 20:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Bigi Mombasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be honest with you, but if you screwed up you probably won't get a second chance. It's probably best you admit that to yourself, and get over it. The sooner you can get over this girl the sooner you can start being happy with somebody else.
2006-08-28 20:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll sweetie, what ever you did in the past im sure she can find it in her heart to forgive you..
ask for her forgiveness and tell her exactly how much you've missed her!! dont forget that actions speak louder than words so show her how much you care for her!..
remember!..its all up to you to show her what an amaxing person you are!
good luck!..
2006-08-28 20:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by sexii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send the girl a invite to dinner -have flowers and candy dress to impress when and if she comes tell her how you fell don't hold anything back might be your last chance Good luck!!!
2006-08-28 20:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by j-dawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just let her know that you still love her
do something sweet!
have you ever watched 10 thigs i hate about you?? where heath ledger sings to her in the stadium? i don't think i could ever resist someone doing something like that for me
2006-08-28 20:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just wrote. I would love some guy to say that to me. Hope it all works out!
2006-08-28 20:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋