My boyfriend is SO jealous, if my phone rings, he gets mad. What can i do?
2006-08-28 13:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best thing is to dump him.. But on the other hand if you love him or like him allot speak to him about the problems your having with him being so jealous
2006-08-28 13:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by krazy guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do for yourself is to end the relationship. His jealousy problem will only get worse as time goes on. You may think that you can handle it now, but if you married him or had a child with him you may end up being trapped and miserable. Also, some jealous people become abusers. Cut your ties and RUN!
2006-08-28 13:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, if you're constantly on the phone when you're with him, rather than spending time with him...then turn off the phone.
But....if he is really obsessive then you need to let him go before it gets any worse. For example, If he's getting upset when the phone rings, constantly needs to know where you are, who you're talking to, chooses you're friends for you....that sort of thing, then those are signs that he is very controlling. A person who has control and obsession issues needs serious professional help.
Good Luck!
2006-08-28 13:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by my_lil_buttercups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get out of this relationship immidietly!This is the start of an abusive relationship.There are alot of good men out there.I know at first you feel flattered that someone's into you that much but it gets old and annoying after a while.This lady here in my city had her brains litterally knocked out of her with a skillet by her jealous husband.GET OUT!!!
2006-08-28 13:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him...this is the first step of something that could end up a lot worse down the road. Relationships are base don trust.
2006-08-28 13:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are out on a date turn the phone off.
2006-08-28 13:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say your phone rings--before you answer it, tell him who it is. Or if you're going out, tell him where you're going so he doesn't get suspicious for no reason. Stuff like that. I hope this helps!
2006-08-28 13:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that jealous then break up with him. Extreme jealously does often lead to violence and nobody needs that.
2006-08-28 13:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him ASAP. His behaviour will not improve. You may be setting yourself up for mountains of mental and physical abuse.
Quit now.
2006-08-28 13:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Paul D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the women here get out of that relationship, JUST THINK ABOUT IT ARE YOU HAPPY RIGHT NOW WITH HIM IF YOUR NOT THEN WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM.
2006-08-28 13:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋