she says im crowding her, but how do i stop?

Question

i dont know if someone else will move in, i love her so much

Answer 1

if she does not love you then leave her!!

Answer 2

Give her a little space. You don't have to be with her 24/7. We all got to have some time for ourselfs even when we are in love. Take some time to go out with your friends. Let her go out with hers. Don't get jealous of what she does. If you love her trust her but if she says your crowding her then back off some. Good luck to you. I seen what some of these other ones are saying about she is going to drop you. I don't believe that. I feel that way sometimes too and tell my husband that so he backs off a gives me what I need. We have been together for 10 years.

Answer 3

You are going to crowd her so much she will leave you for someone else who has more going for him than you do. You are suffocating her and she needs her space. Back off and be nice but let her make some of the first moves.

Answer 4

She doesn't love you.

"Crowding" is something people say when they're not serious about the relationship, but they see that you are. She's shifting the blame for her distance by accusing you of crowding.

Seriously, you need to move on!

Answer 5

You say you love her love can sumtimes be magic. Just give her sum space and if she's cheating like it sounds like let her go as much as it will hurt you'll see she's no good for. Look don't take my advice listen to your heart no body on the int. can tell you let her go use your heart that's what you feel with not the ink from the computer or the people on the outside looking into your relationship.

Answer 6

She's probably just felling a little trapped right now. Try cutting down on the time the two of you spend together just a little bit and try saying things that won't make her fel trpped in the relationship.

Answer 7

IF YOU DONT GIVE SOMETHING ROOM TO GROW, BREATH, EXPERIEMCE, LEARN, ETC. IT WILL SUFFICATE, WITHER UP AND DIE, SO IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER, STAND BACK AND GIVE HER ROOM, OR YOU WILL KILL OFF WHATEVER YOU DO HAVE TOGETHER, DONT COMPLETELY LEAVE HER ALONE, JUST GIVE HER SPACE TO BREATH, AND IF SOMEONE ELSE DOES MOVE IN, THEN SHE WAS NEVER REALLY YOURS ,ANYWAYS, SHE WAS A TEMP. AND SOMEDAY YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO IS THE ONE FOR YOU, BUT DONT HUNT IT DOWN, JUST RELAX AND LET IT HAPPEN. THERE IS NOTHING IN THIS WORLD BETTER, THAN TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO ALSO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU, SO REMEMBER IF SHE FLEES, SHE WAS NOT FOR YOU, BUT TRUELY SOMEONE IS OUT THERE THAT IS. GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS.

Answer 8

since you haven't really put any details down. I would ask her how she wants you to back off. If she allows someone else to move in then she is not the one for you.

Answer 9

pay her less attention
when she calls always have something else to do(No really not in theory)

women love this game, they start it but can never finish.

If she still leaves well, at least you were already on the rebound...

try not to love women so much dude BIG weakness that people can exploit including them.

Answer 10

that's a tough one man.....I think every guy out there can relate and many of us have been in that boat because we don't want to lose her......but you are going to have to back off alittle....don't be as paranoid.......where the chips fall, they fall......I know it's easier said than done but if you don't you'll have a 100% chance of losing her instead of whatever chance exists now.

Answer 11

She was politely telling you to go away. Let her go and find someone who does like you and want to be with you.