i've been talking to this guy, that i like alot - but he likes my 'promiscious' friend, we goof off and talk alot, but sometimes we end up talking about my friend (he wants to know alot about her, and if shes interested) i know she is, they wont last 2 months (shes talking to 3 other guys -- the same way she talks to him.) do you think that maybe once hes done being blinded by her, he'll see me? the sweet, not promiscious funny girl that just wants to be with him? -or do you think we'll just be friends because thats what we are now.. :(
2006-08-28 13:06:18 · 9 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a sweet guy - very sweet guy i trust him so much!! <3 i want to be with him, but all he ever wants to talk about with me now is my friend, talks about her plans, last night (theyve known each other 3 days) and shes already gave him a hj & bj.
2006-08-29 07:40:55 · update #1
he says he has "fun" with her.
im just as much fun as her, just not as promiscious.
2006-08-29 07:41:46 · update #2
Marie tell your girl that you think this guy is a hottie and ask her to let him off her hook, because you want to try being with him . your problem isn't her so much as it with the reason he is interested in her, You need to swallow back and tell him that you think you are the one for him and that he might just miss a great girl while watching all the others pass bye.
love is a dive headlong from a tall cliff there is the fear that comes a with contemplating that 1st jump followed by the rush as you fall head long and then there is all consuming relief as you find that you enjoyed the whole experience and it has paid off .
2006-08-28 13:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably only interested in your friend because he's just like her... hit it and quit it. You'd probably end up getting used and hurt so you'd probably better off finding yourself a "nice" guy if you're looking for a real relationship. Oh by the way... a lot does have a space in it.
2006-08-28 20:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by atheist_2_u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are asking is - ??
You want him on a rebound after his shallow relationship with your friend after he gets hurt and has a physical relationship with her.... Think about what you are asking. If this boy is so charged up with hormones that he sees the physical with your friend and not the nice girl (you) he is not ready for a true relationship and certainly not deserving of you. You do not need to settle for hand me downs....or seconds.
Let him make his mistakes but keep looking for someone that appreciates you for you.
2006-08-28 20:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes at the age were he just wants sex, find someone else,even if he likes you after he will still have a thing for your friend, never allow yourself to be second choice, move on and keep things with him as strictly friends.
2006-08-28 20:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by starfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab him rip his pants off get on your knees and go crazy thatll get him over the other girl
2006-08-28 20:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience little one Patience. ya dog
2006-08-28 20:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Qailman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're willing to bang him, he won't give you the time of day.
2006-08-28 20:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he gets dumped hard by this other girl, he might come to you on the rebound, but not until then, he's stuck on her
2006-08-28 20:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
using you to get to the friend. happends all the time
2006-08-28 20:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by McOff.80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋