2006-08-28 13:03:37 · 18 answers · asked by eembi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he used you for a booty call
2006-08-28 13:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know how that song goes " i wonder if i take you home, would you still be in love?" well thats what it means how guys might act in love with you before u have sex but then afterward they act like it meant nothing when it meant everything to you. Ive made this mistake 3 times! ive had sex with 3 guys that werent dating me. 2 of which had a girlfriend and it did me no good. they all didnt respect me or want anything of me afterward and i finally learned it was wrong to do and that sex should be with someone special that loves you that youve known for a long time and you know you can trust them. So the reason he didnt call is simply because he doesn't care. Its the sad truth but thats how guys are. So protect yourself and know that sex is sacred, not a ticket to getting a guy to love you because it just doesnt work that way.
2006-08-28 20:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Alexandra H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known him? Was it just a one-off? I'm sorry to say but if you only met him at a club or somewhere, then the chances are he wont call.
However, if you have known him a while, then perhaps he is just trying to come to terms with what happened. Maybe it was the heat of the moment, and it shouldn't have happened. Don't worry, sooner or later he will call, and if he doesn't don't mope over him. Don't call him.
2006-08-28 20:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it happens if hasn't called he is not going to. It happens to the best of us. Don't let it get you down. Move on and forget about it. It will be hard not to feel like a stupid person but don't his loss
2006-08-28 20:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by mrsmay28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, hon. He was just playing you. You really have to watch for the "Wham Bammers". They will say whatever they feel they need to so you will sleep with them, and then they are gone, with no regard to your feelings. Not all guys are like that, and I hope you find a good one soon! Good luck and God Bless hon!
2006-08-28 20:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let him use you. next time dont open your legs. make this your lesson that you learned. just because you open your legs doesnt mean he will love you. dont mistake lust for love. take your time to get to know the person then if you feel you trust him and has found respect for you. maybe after that you can give him that piece of you. this should take lots of time. not a month. a loooong time.
2006-08-28 20:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by kandlight1182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WOULD THINK NOW DAYS THE GIRLS WOULD LEARN NOT TO HAVE SEX WITH JUST ANYBODY. GUYS ONCE THEY HAVE YOU EITHER KEEP ON COMING BACK OR MOVE ON FOR SOMETHING NEW. YOU SHOULD KNOW ALSO THAT GUYS LIKE TO TALK AND SOMETIMES NOT TELL THE WHOLE TRUTH.
2006-08-28 20:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk. he has NO respect for HIMSELF. and chances are he will turn tables around and say that you had no respect for yourself.
you're sweet, don't be jaded by someone who has no respect for himself or for people. he took advantage because he is too weak and can't get his way no other way than to take advantage.
his parents probably taught him to act like this.
2006-08-28 20:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by imlaura2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not the first you need to find worthy mates
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-08-28 20:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky...i haven't had sex in over 4 months.
2006-08-28 20:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋