I am attracted guys that are older than me and not slightly I mean way older like in thier 20's. Girls did ya'll or are now experiencing emotions like this if so let me know. And did you grow out of it? The same with guys. Did you like older women when you were this age or still do?
2006-08-28 13:01:29 · 30 answers · asked by KayDaviam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how mature you are for your age. I was engaged at 15 to a guy who was 27, divorced, and had two kids. I decided I really didn't want to marry someone with kids, but we had a great relationship.
No, you don't grow out of it. I recently lost my husband to a heart attack and he was 20 years older than me. I seem to click better with older men.
Good Luck, but be careful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-28 13:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are probably interested in older men because that's just it-they're men, not boys. I think it's normal to have this feeling from time to time, although I don't think it's healthy if it all you're interested in. It may not be so bad if you, yourself were older, but at that young of an age, it seems a bit risky.
I can assure you that 99% of the guys who are that much older than you and appear interested, are merely trying to take advantage of you. A lot of these "mature" guys think that the younger you are, the more gullible you are and therefore an easier lay. Not only that, but you never know who it is you are getting involved with. True, that applies to males of your age as well, but the fact that men in their 20's don't need supervision and the like just makes it seem that much riskier to me.
I small age gap is ok, but anything more than a year or two, I would be weary of. And if you are having that hard of a time finding someone in your own age group that you are interested in, then maybe you should hold off until you find someone that's right for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 13:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age, I also liked guys that were older but I never made a move. I specifically remember this one teacher I had a huge crush on, he was 23 and I was 14 or 15 lol I think that it is normal for girls your age to be attracted to those who are older. They seem more mature, more manly, and just more attractive. Plus, movies don't help us think they are any less attractive! So don't worry, it's all very normal :-) I did sort of grew out of it. By the time I did though, I was able to date them lol
2006-08-28 13:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might find that you're still attracted to guys in their 20's when you are in your 20's.
I was attracted to women in their 30's. When I was in my 30's I finally found one I wanted to marry.... At first I thought it was because they were older than me. Now I realize that it was more the age than the age difference. People know more about themselves and who they are when they are a little older.
You might just be more emotionally mature than your age group. Be careful though. Dating men is not the same thing as dating boys. You should consider putting off dating for a while and concentrating on school.
2006-08-28 13:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh wow that's 5 years older than you, at 15 it's probably not a good idea to hang around with people older, after all you need to be concentrating on finishing school!
A 5 year age gap is nothing special, my husband and i have an age gap of 8 years.
You just need to get your priorities straight, why are you looking to 20 year olds as boyfriends?
2006-08-28 13:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by pootle_monster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always attracted to much older men. I think it was because guys that are 15 are often very immature compared to a girl at the same age. Women mature much quicker.
2006-08-28 13:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. I got married the first time when i was 20 to a man who was 34. It's a father figure thing. You want a man who's gonna take care of you and everything that entails.
When you finally finish growing up it can be a maturity thing. Just let time run it's course, and everything will be alright.
2006-08-28 14:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was fourteen I was madly in love with a nineteen year old. When I was nineteen I was madly in love with a thirty-six year old....now that I'm forty I'm madly in love with a twenty-four year old who recently confessed that she was attracted to a sixty-year old...in all cases it had nothing to do with the age, but the character of the person.
It's normal to feel attraction...but you should be very careful at your age, someone older than you is in a position to take advantage of you.
2006-08-28 13:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by markus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age your hormones are still developing so be careful of the older guys they take advantage of girls your age and can be dangerous ,stay in your age range it may be hard but it's better than the consequences you can face with an older man they can use you because they know you're mixed up at this age ,stay away from them.
2006-08-28 13:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be attracted to older man, but not to go auto with them. The reason is that any boys around your age are usually very immature.
2006-08-28 13:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by elclone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋